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Dummy Blind

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lincolnimp Sat 09-Feb-19 17:21:07

Perhaps I am being unreasonable but I cannot understand why parents take, and share, photos of their children with a dummy stuck in their mouth.
Not only young babies either, some much older toddlers and pre schoolers
Even 'celebrities' don't seem to mind if their children are seen out in public, and therefore photographed with these appalling things stuck in their mouths.
I am not totally anti dummy , there are some young babies who need them to help with dropping off to sleep, or if there are long term illnesses, but so many parents seem to be Dummy Blind

trisher Tue 12-Feb-19 13:02:58

I agree with the OP that dummies can not only distort the teeth but can also lead to children having language problems. If when you wanted to express yourself, perhaps by grumbling, perhaps by screaming someone stuck a dummy in your mouth and you were forced to be quiet you would pretty soon stop trying to say anything. And arguably that's what is happening to children past baby stage who have a dummy stuck in their mouth most of the day. There is a place for them for babies if the parent feels the need (although I always think they are just another thing to have to manage), but for older children it is for some parents just a way of keeping the kid quiet at a time wen they should be developing language and communication skills.

watermeadow Tue 12-Feb-19 19:48:37

I think of dummies as old fashioned, I see few babies with a dummy now. My own children all sucked thumbs or fingers, some until their teens, and all had straight teeth. Buck teeth are usually inherited.
Once after their first day at school I saw one child greeted with her dummy and another with a huge bar of chocolate (paper dropped straight onto the playground).

Iam64 Tue 12-Feb-19 20:06:32

Coo, what a lot of judgemental posts here.

mcem Tue 12-Feb-19 20:31:04

imp to post a name in bold is simple.
Type asterisk * then name then asterisk * but with no spaces. Try a few. No detentions if you get it wrong!

lincolnimp Tue 12-Feb-19 20:58:31

meem thank you

mcem Tue 12-Feb-19 21:00:36

By George you've got it!