Granddaughter

Whatever do you mean ‘in love’ there will be many boyfriends and many ‘ in loves’ She’s 14 and starting out on the road of meeting boys
You ll still be wondering and worrying and she ll already be on her next boyfriend
You shouldn’t be worrying about it because honestly it’s not our business as grandparents who our grandkids are friends or ‘going out’ with unless they tell us or ask our opinion which is HIGHLY unlikely

PADDYANN ifs he was 18 when she met her first boyfriend how could she meet and marry when she was 14. Have I got it wrong ?

he may not be "in love with her " at that age not all relationships are serious ,not mr right..just mr right now .

My daughters first boyfriend was 4 years older than her ,they got engaged when she was 18 and he was 22,split up when she was 21 .She then followed family tradition and married a man who was younger than her ,She was a very mature 14 year old when she met him and he was quite immature for 18..so they met in the middle .

As it is I agree with you and if she tried to get birth control the health professionals would have concerns to about the age difference.

Unfortunately though it’s none of your business I assume Mom is taking a watch and see approach and has her fingers crossed that it burns itself out. Hoping that he’ll get bored of not being an adult.

Also I assume Mom is trying to not push her daughter away and into risky situations.

Really depends on the 14 year old and 18 year old. Have you met the boyfriend? The problem is that if anyone interferes it will just make him seem more romantic and desirable.

Dinno, I'm an owl, so you're ok - no apologies needed.
I have a 15 year old granddaughter and I don't think she has a boyfriend yet, at lleast, not that I know of. She stays some weekends with me and that's all she does is, go to the town with her friends (day ) , returns by 5. Now, I'm sure the friends she goes to town with include boys. But I don't think there is any one special. Well ..............