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The Sussexes & Hypocrisy

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Sparklefizz Fri 05-Apr-19 10:04:41

Prince Harry said earlier in the week that social media is as addictive for kids as drugs and alcohol. They can be bullied and become anxious and depressed.

Instagram seems to be the worst apparently, although he didn't mention that by name.

However, AIBU to expect Harry and Meghan with all their virtue-signalling, to be less hypocritical? The Sussexes have just set up an Instagram account and already have over 3 million followers apparently !!! Is this not blatant hypocrisy?

Before this, Harry's topic was a climate change lecture to young people while he and Meghan zipped about in private jets for her baby shower and his trip back for Valentine's Day.

I have always been very fond of Harry but since he has become New Agey and got on various soapboxes, they both have had a marvellous chance to practise what they preach..... but are not doing it.

I'm disappointed in him.

GabriellaG54 Sat 06-Apr-19 12:57:28

When Harry and Meghan had their 3 day 'babymoon' they were accompanied by 3 close protection officers who would be on 8 hour shifts 7-3, 3-11, 11-7.

Doings Sat 06-Apr-19 13:00:45

Oh gosh the vitriol against Meghan and Harry ...

A couple of points.
Meat isn't good for you, and the knock on effects to Planet Earth from cows / methane is well publicised.
Don't presume to know what Princess Diana would think of either Meghan or Kate.
Don't buy into the Daily Mail rubbish, it's the scandals that keeps them in business and they are going to want to keep their readership up.
Of course opinions posted here are your own but ladies let's be kind, please! No-one knows what goes on in a marriage. And maybe it's the bride calling the shots, it's not for you to object!

Further, dial back on the snide remarks, it's saying more about you than the people you are posting about! Judge and ye shall be judged.

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 13:03:44

You are judging posters Doings

Doings Sat 06-Apr-19 13:06:58

And I'm very happy for anyone here yo think of me in any way they like from my post. I've seen veiled racism in some of the comments. I see who posts that stuff and oh you bet I'm judging them!

William and Kate in Anglesey cost Wales Police 1.4 Million in security.

Educate yourselves.

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 13:17:01

Please name the posts you claim are veiled racism or apologise

maddyone Sat 06-Apr-19 13:33:25

Veiled racism? I haven’t noticed any, I’d better have another look.

Teetime Sat 06-Apr-19 13:50:34

To me this couple are like any of the others in Hello magazine - famous for being famous - of no more interest than that.

pinkquartz Sat 06-Apr-19 14:08:55

This is actually her third, yes third marriage. They are both over 30 years of age and should be old and mature enough to cope with a few changes.
their conspicuous spending is obscene because they do nothing to earn the mney they spend. I do not accept that shaking a few hands etc is a job.
They are relics of times gone by and the sooner we stop pandering to them the better.
They are not bothered what people like us think if them.

vigdis Sat 06-Apr-19 14:09:08

Must admit I've not seen racism on Gransnet politics threads although I've not read them all.

In fact it's the only social site I've been on which appears to be able to discuss politics without racism, threats or deliberate insults, which is quite unique according to my experience.

Heated and at times there's angry comments, but that's the nature of politics I guess. But racism? No, I don't see it.

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 14:18:20

Doings will name the posters , she has asked for kindness and I have asked her to be honest

chaffinch Sat 06-Apr-19 14:59:00

pink quartz- her third marriage???

annsixty Sat 06-Apr-19 15:00:57

That is surely wrong.
Such info could not possibly slip under the radar.

Jaxie Sat 06-Apr-19 17:01:28

Poor deluded Harry: she'll chew him up and spit his bones on the road.

vigdis Sat 06-Apr-19 17:18:37

Jaxie

Know her well then - or did you form your opinion on the back of the honest, unbiased media reports about her?

... and Harry would survive even if she did as you untimate she will. He's not without the support of family or friends. I also doubt he's the poor little puppy that many of MM's detractors are making him out to be.

For all you know she might be perfectly happy with her role as a mother, and as the wife of Harry. Perish the thought eh!

Why are women so bitchy about other women?

Doings Sat 06-Apr-19 17:35:12

Merlotgran : Harry has gone over to the dark side - on page 1.

Forgoodnessake : mother would be mortified by his actions. And his choice of wife -on page 1.

Let's underline the posts referring Meghan as -
Second rate soap star - and - simpering trophy wife.
'That actress' - and - z list celebrity.

Meghan was married once befor and had a 2 year relationship before her marriage to Harry. Not married 3 times.

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 17:51:55

Doings you read those comments as racist ? Good grief

vigdis Sat 06-Apr-19 17:56:16

Doings

Your last sentence. In some people's eyes, those prior relationships will be sufficient for them to decide she's not fit to be Harry's wife.

The fact that Harry himself has had on-off long term relationships (not to mention some short term ones probably) will simply be overlooked.

This woman is being judged (and boy, is she being judged!) by old-fashioned patriarchal mysogynistic standards - upheld by an awful lot of women, IMO. Otherwise why do her previous relationships matter? And that's a rhetorical question, I know the answer!

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 18:41:53

She married the second time age 36, her first marriage was a short marriage, naturally she had affairs . Haven’t read any posts which say she shouldn’t have had affairs,

Rather a lot of rubbish now.

paddyann Sat 06-Apr-19 18:48:28

not bothered if she's slept her way round the world,cant understand why its OK to tell the plebs how to run THEIR lives and do the opposite in yours. As for them being exhausted by the renovations of their new home and a pregnancy...give me a break! I've never read so much nonsense on here ,they didn't do the house up while working a 40 or 50 hour week ..(working ..not holidaying and being paid for it) neither did they have to load vans and move home as most folk do and I'm quite sure neither of them are so desperate for a break that spending more than the average YEARLY wage on 3 nights is justifiable .Private citizens can do what they want with thier own hard earned cash..as any they have will have filtered down in some way from the taxpayer .Its not on !

Callistemon Sat 06-Apr-19 19:11:54

Merlotgran : Harry has gone over to the dark side - on page 1

shock has Harry joined Mumsnet? or is Meghan on there to ask for advice?

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 19:24:46

Callistemon. ?

Ngaio1 Sat 06-Apr-19 22:04:17

This horrid woman was bound to cause ructions. She has a very entitled and spoilt way about her. Harry is in for a rough ride I think.

Anniebach Sat 06-Apr-19 22:07:17

Has he found a mother replacement ?

Bridgeit Sat 06-Apr-19 22:31:52

This thread says more about the unpleasantness of some Mothers Aunties , sisters & Grans than it does about MM.
Fine if you are not in favour of this country having the heritage of a Royal Family,But why not criticise that if you must , ,just leave out attacking another human beings for being who & what they are , we are ALL an accident of birth & circumstance. Turn your telly off & don’t read papers.

paddyann Sat 06-Apr-19 23:09:57

Ah but* Bridget* being unsensitive to those around you..or beneath you if you're H and M isn't JUST about being born royal..though I dispute the rights and privileges that brings..simply from poppIng out of a particular vagina.Its about MISusing the privilege they have by telling US how to behave while blindly going on with ALL the things we're supposed to stop doing..according to them. I am and always have been a republican ,I'm totally opposed to hereditary positions of power .You want to be powerful then bloody work your way to the top ...dont expect to have it spoonfed from birth.Waste of space and money the country really cant afford .I'm sure they are really very "nice" people ..they'd be nicer if they got on with their own lives AND financed them themselves .I have nothing against MM .