I find it terribly difficult to get uptight by a surname. By the time I was 8 I had had 3 different surnames and I added to the confusion by having another couple until I met my DH and we married. I've held this name for the last 24 years, the longest I've ever had the same name by about 7 times. Filling in a DBS form is a nightmare!
To obliterate your address on packaging