I would not offer to pay for a babysitter. Why? All the other parents of uninvited children would think that was unfair, unless of course no one else knew you were paying......before you know it you could be responsible for sorting out a crèche!
40 years ago, my sister took umbrage that her children were not invited to a family wedding, so refused invitation. Fast forward to her own daughter’s wedding, none of our family were invited, let alone children as it was a small do. Fair enough, but amazing how views can alter over the years.
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