Sorry, but this house first and lastly is an investment, not a home for the parents, one of which has severe health problems. What part of "no stairs/steps" does your daughter and partner not understand?
I think that you need to be straight with them and tell them that you will be moving and why. What happened to the house that you were previously living in ? Was it sold and the proceeds used to pay for this house? If that is the case, more consultation with you should have been done- not difficult to send photos or videos in this day and age.
Suggest that you and your husband look around for a unit , maybe in a retired complex , even if it means that you have to rent.
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34 year old assisted euthanasia