I lost my husband in August last year so know exactly how you feel. The last thing you want is a reminder that you’ve lost your partner and I’m surprised how tactless your friends are in not realising this.
I would tell them how you feel and if they are good friends they will totally understand. If they don’t they aren’t.
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