I’m so sorry Tipper. You are in a no win situation.
Where your husband is away at the majority of the time and everything would fall on you, I’m not sure I could take it on. I think you are an amazing person for even considering it.
But you would effectively be signing up to be a solo parent, and let’s be honest it’s going to be longer than 18 years because you will fall in love with a child and you’re not going to give them up as soon as they turn 18.
I am not a nasty person but ……
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages
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