My husband and I have been married for 11 years, his granddaughter is 14. We have visited the dad who is a single father a few times but they have never been here. Two years ago the child came for Christmas which he purchased her thousands of dollars worth of thing. So since every summer and every Christmas she’s back.
My problem when this kid arrives my husband changes towards me and everyone. I can’t ask him to do anything go anywhere etc. My husband takes this child out for dinner every night and will not call to ask if I want a soda pop or anything.
This has been going on for a few years. So I bought it to his attention. We had words.
Last the child got here in April and left in late June I purchase a $300 Pair of shoes several years ago, I can not find my shoes. I looked for a month before I bought it to his attention. So he and I looked still no shoes. So I asked if he thought his granddaughter may have my shoes. This man went off I ll buy her shoes and anything she wants. My husband went on and on . She don’t have to steal on and on. I was a kid before I feel as if she could have giving them to a friend her mom or anything. I don’t know. All I know my shoes left with the kid.
No one else been here in this house but us three, and he called ask ask her she said no.
Now he doesn’t want to buy me a new pair doesn’t want to help me buy a new pair.
We are not talking he feels that I don’t like his granddaughter and the shoes just walked out the door.
So now I’m tired of informing him of his changes when the kid gets here, and my shoes might be the point of no return.
I feel as if his only granddaughter is God to him. He brags and brags on her.
We don’t have kids together he didn’t want any.
Don’t want to feel as if I’m jelious of a 14 year old.
Any suggestions?
thank you so much Iam64
