As a recovering alcoholic I haven’t always found it easy to resist alcohol but now I have no problem with having it in the house or sitting with others who are drinking alcohol - it’s a mental attitude and takes practice -
One thing I do is think through the consequences of my actions and that’s enough to stop me. I’m not expecting those around me to restrict themselves just because I have to, and I’m happy to buy alcohol if we’re hosting friends and family
How do you cope when you’re out shopping or in a restaurant?
If he offers you a treat just say ‘no’ and I’d just say I’m not interested or ask him why if he wants to show you his treat stash
If you ask for it to be hidden away then you’re not really facing up to your condition and maybe that’s the problem- though it does sound as if he’s enormously tactless -
I’m finished my festival poncho
I’ve just finished a jacket for my grandson