I am sad to see the Scottish intend to ban the word “Mother” from maternity units, leaflets etc.,
Who on earth comes up with these ideas? I would think most of us are proud to be mothers and the word always makes one feel safe and secure and loved. I always as a child knew when my mother was around she would make everything alright. I know not every child is so lucky as I was, But please don’t ban the word “Mother”. What do other Grans think?
Good post (as always) Elegran. You're right, why not add a term instead of suggesting removing a perfectly acceptable one. The current fuss about inviting "people with a cervix" for screening could have been avoided if they had just said "women and others who have a cervix" or something like that. I'm sure you could phrase it better!
I find that shouting on here - posting in capitals, of course - happens when something has been posted innumerable times but other people just ignore it and post the exact opposite as though it was fact.
I thought the best post on that thread was VioletSky's saying that in spite of all the previous shock stories Christmas and Easter still remained just as the word "mother" will.
Elegran very well summarised. Adding in wasn't liked by a couple of posters, most agreed it would be a totally inclusive way forward. As I recall the deleted thread went on to reference maternity units and real life situations and a poster said if you wanted to be referred to as 'mother' in those situations you could make that request.
An occasional use of capitals for a few single words in a post (three in my post above, eight in Paddyann's) isn't shouting. It is one of the ways of emphasising a word.
SHOUTING IS WHEN POSTERS USE THEM FOR WHOLE SENTENCES, LIKE THIS, OR FOR A WHOLE POST.