Food deliveries by unmasked drivers

Most of our delivery drivers no longer wear masks. They stand back and I get it in. Have to accept that things have changed. Grateful that I don't have to go to a supermarket. I think that my you have little choice but to adapt to the current situation.

I am sorry you are vunerable, but you cannot impose mask wearing on the driver. It's not your call.
I honestly believe you cut of your nose to spite your face.

Sometimes our delivery driver is wearing a mask, sometimes not. They always stand well back while we transfer the stuff from the crates. No problem.

We've had online deliveries for 17+ years. I am CEV and in the last few years our deliveries have been as always. Driver arrives, sets tote trays on doorstep, and my husband brings in the groceries. No masks required.

I cannot possibly bend down to unpack crates so the delivery driver unpacks them on to the kitchen table for me. The back door is left open and I stand in the hall. No problem.
Last week the lady driver offered to put the frozen stuff into the freezer for me. I do find all the Sainsburys drivers are helpful and polite.

This is sad really as your anxiety levels must be sky high. Poor delivery driver who is only trying to do his/her job. I would say try some relaxation exercises.

I dont think the o p is saying theyve to drive wearing a mask, just to wear it to their door.(eazybee-you cant drive with a mask on if you wear glasses as they steam up!) But, my youngest son is CEV so we take extra care- but some deliveries (most)drivers are not wearing masks, they do stand back, and me & elder son wear masks, to bring in shopping, youngest stays in his room well out of the way,we dettol wipe all shopping and we are fine so far.As drivers don't come in its a minor risk I'd say.Had some washer fitters come, they had no masks, but did have gloves.i wore a mask but left them to fit washer.went back when they'd gone, had left front door open etc,sprayed dettol in the air etc..Most do comply, if they've to come in, maybe those 2 were 'exempt'? But all ok anyway.

lol some ppl make me laugh, We don’t need to wear masks outside, no one wears them outside except odd ones. My delivery ppl leave on doorstep stand back and leave. I think you should be ashamed of yourself these ppl have worked there socks off all throughout lockdown and have done a fantastic job and mrs moaning knickers gets on the phone and complaints.

Masks are note required outdoors: does the delivery person enter your premises?
Remember that if you wear a mask yourself to feel safer, it would need to be FFP2/3 to protect you as well as the other person.

YABU. V V V YABU. Health anxiety maybe?

You must be very anxious, my sons are, as i said, one is CEV, other has OCD so hes been very hyped up over covid- and we all have medical problems/disabilities- but we have had to try cope with it and tone down our anxieties over it as time has wore on.I personally am over anxious whenever we have hospital appts or procedures, but we do have to have things frequently unfortunately.??

Omicron is our friend! By being both very infectious and mild, it has driven out Delta and all previous variants of SARS-CoV-2, and will infect us all, thus immunising us to any possible more serious variants. It has been infecting vaccinated and unvaccinated alike. Please stop worrying, and don't be rude to people who never stopped working to bring you your daily bread, whatever the risk to themselves. As a wise man once said "Take up thy bed and walk".

My delivery drivers always place the crates in my porch and then step away as I unload. Some wear masks and some don’t. The driver doesn’t come into house.
It’s just my opinion but I think it was unreasonable to demand he wears a mask and then send your shopping back when he didn’t. If he had been coming into your home that would be different.

I don't expect my Tesco drivers to wear a mask. To be truthfull I don't notice if they do or don't. They deliver my monthly shopping and have done all through lockdown and I am very grateful. Thank you Tesco for a fantastic service.

There's a section when you're ordering where you can put special requests. Just explain there that you are vulnerable, you require the delivery person to wear a mask and stand well back. while you unload the shop. They have always respected this request on my deliveries.

Nannashirlz that was an unnecessary and unkind remark. Many vulnerable people are very worried and rightly so about the end of compulsory mask wearing. There are many people who are immune compromised that omnicron would be either fatal or at the very least make them far sicker and their life far harder. I would be very worried if I were immune compromised too.

I don't think I would want to starve over whether or not the delivery driver wore a mask. In England it is no longer compulsory as he is out in the fresh air and not in your home. Just think about the number of people who have handled the foodstuffs before the delivery driver gets to you and you may never eat again.

Sorry, but you’ve gone over the top here! W******e do our deliveries. I haven’t noticed if they wear masks or not. They leave the crate on the doorstep and OH carries it through to the kitchen. I unload it and OH then takes the crate back. The driver does not come into the house. I won’t blame S’s if they refuse to deliver to you any more.

There are quite a few responses on here which are glaringly inconsistent with what CEV people are still being advised by their care providers. I’m CEV and advised to be very careful as my condition affects the ability to make antibodies against Covid. My consultant considers it too soon to be fully dropping my guard and advises a ‘wait and see’ approach for now. I’ve just had a fourth Covid vaccination and am awaiting antibody testing. There were two categories of clinically vulnerable people with different advice for each, and those in the CEV category were, and still are, the ones most at risk.

I can see where the OP’s coming from - anyone with a serious underlying condition has spent the majority of the last two years fearing infection from Covid - when I contracted it in February last year it was as a result of a short hospital stay and I was really ill, and very scared. It’s not something I wish to go through again and the fear is still there.

I have deliveries from two of the major supermarkets and the drivers haven’t worn masks for a while so I wear mine. I have on occasion explained to the driver that I’m CEV and requested they wear a mask if they enter the house - usually for a larger delivery where they bring the containers inside. They have never refused this request. Normally they place the containers on the floor in the porch, the driver steps back while I put things in bags. I wipe down packaging before putting things away and then thoroughly wash my hands and wipe down surfaces. I would never refuse to accept delivery just because a driver refuses to wear a mask, but again, if the OP is still at considerable risk, it comes down to personal choice and what you’re comfortable with. Life goes on for the majority of people, but a few of us still have to practise a certain amount of caution and I think this thread displays a lack of understanding as to why.

NemosMum

Omicron is our friend! By being both very infectious and mild, it has driven out Delta and all previous variants of SARS-CoV-2, and will infect us all, thus immunising us to any possible more serious variants. It has been infecting vaccinated and unvaccinated alike. Please stop worrying, and don't be rude to people who never stopped working to bring you your daily bread, whatever the risk to themselves. As a wise man once said "Take up thy bed and walk".

Omicron is most definitely not the ‘friend’ of anyone CEV !!

Nannashirlz

lol some ppl make me laugh, We don’t need to wear masks outside, no one wears them outside except odd ones. My delivery ppl leave on doorstep stand back and leave. I think you should be ashamed of yourself these ppl have worked there socks off all throughout lockdown and have done a fantastic job and mrs moaning knickers gets on the phone and complaints.

That was unnecessary. As I explained upthread, for anyone with a serious autoimmune disorder things haven’t really moved on - clinical advice is still to be cautious. No amount of name calling will change that.

Nannashirlz

lol some ppl make me laugh, We don’t need to wear masks outside, no one wears them outside except odd ones. My delivery ppl leave on doorstep stand back and leave. I think you should be ashamed of yourself these ppl have worked there socks off all throughout lockdown and have done a fantastic job and mrs moaning knickers gets on the phone and complaints.

That was unkind.

The OP asked a civil question. It appears she is vulnerable - maybe CEV, who knows. If you are, you continually get emails and messages from the NHS reminding you of the fact - hardly surprising that some feel anxious.

She may have over-reacted, but calling her "mrs moaning knickers" was a bit spiteful.

Why do you find it 'laugh-out-loud' funny?

Millie22

This is sad really as your anxiety levels must be sky high. Poor delivery driver who is only trying to do his/her job. I would say try some relaxation exercises.

Relaxation exercises aren’t magically going to change the fact that you’re clinically vulnerable.

Sparklefizz

Some of my delivery drivers haven't worn a mask from many months ago. I open the door and stand back, they put the crates on my doormat and stand back while I unload them. At all times we are about 2m apart, and the driver is out in my front garden.

this absolutely.

Food delivery drivers have saved my life and my sanity.
They are unfailingly polite and cheerful and willing to chat as I unload the baskets..
Thanks to every one of them.