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Mouth open duchess

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Baggs Wed 02-Feb-22 13:16:28

I expect to be told I'm being unreasonable for saying that I wish there were fewer pictures in the press of Kate Middleton (oh yes, you can complain about that too ?) with her mouth open. Today's were accompanying news of her taking on what used to be Harry's rugby patronages.

I think she'll be a great ambassador (is that the word?) for the sport and, as usual, she looks a model of forty-year-old fitness. She even looks elegant in a track suit.

But the gaping maw? (no offence maybemaw; your maw is a different word).

Josieann Fri 04-Feb-22 08:16:18

Dickens

Why are we women so critical of other women?

Isn't it enough that many men judge us on our appearance?

I'd like to know that too Dickens. And it isn't just on appearance. It's on behaviour and manners.

Barmeyoldbat Fri 04-Feb-22 08:37:56

I have heard it all, what a horrible post. I thought they were wonderful photos of a young woman at ease and throughly enjoying herself. Mouth open, that’s how you have a good laugh. Much rather see photos like this than say Victoria Beckham who never even smiles let alone laugh.

Lucca Fri 04-Feb-22 09:14:47

One of the most ridiculous threads I’ve seen started on GN.

I’d almost welcome the riveting ones about favourite dishcloths instead of this.

Josieann Fri 04-Feb-22 09:31:51

I agree Lucca, and although I've returned to the thread too often for my own good, I still feel the OP needed it pointed out that yes, YABU.

Beswitched Fri 04-Feb-22 09:54:59

Lucca

One of the most ridiculous threads I’ve seen started on GN.

I’d almost welcome the riveting ones about favourite dishcloths instead of this.

Then why engage with it?

Lucca Fri 04-Feb-22 11:41:04

Same reason as Josieann

Josieann Fri 04-Feb-22 12:02:06

Hey, now we've got a new thread about Carrie's grin. What's going on?

GrannySquare Fri 04-Feb-22 12:03:59

If I had gnashers like hers, I’d get the Big Grin out as often as possible.

Iam64 Fri 04-Feb-22 13:39:08

Barneyoldbat, was there a need to have a go at Victoria Beckham? The majority of Responses here refer to the pressure on women in the public eye - that includes VB as well as KateM

Barmeyoldbat Fri 04-Feb-22 16:32:56

Iam64 I have said nothing against Catherine the Duchess of Cambridge so what is your point. As forVb well I was comparing her with Catherine, anything wrong with that.

Callistemon21 Fri 04-Feb-22 16:35:35

GrannySquare

If I had gnashers like hers, I’d get the Big Grin out as often as possible.

Oh, me too!
If only. ?

Kim19 Fri 04-Feb-22 16:49:30

Good old Kate! No wonder you're laughing.

Baggs Fri 04-Feb-22 18:38:31

Following barmetoldbat's recent comment, I have said nothing against the duchess either. My complaint was against press photographers.

Everyone's maw gapes sometimes. But the number of photos of Kate with a gaping maw is, it seems to me, out of proportion to reality. That is my complaint.

Given the comments on this thread though, it seems I'm in a minority in preferring less gapiness of maw. So be it. Less gapiness of maw, in general, is still my preference.

Dickens Fri 04-Feb-22 23:50:24

Barmeyoldbat

I have heard it all, what a horrible post. I thought they were wonderful photos of a young woman at ease and throughly enjoying herself. Mouth open, that’s how you have a good laugh. Much rather see photos like this than say Victoria Beckham who never even smiles let alone laugh.

Victoria Beckham has admitted during an interview (some time ago now) that she didn't like her smiley face in photographs because she thought they made her look a bit odd. That wasn't the word she used, but the gist of her comment was that she feels unattractive when she smiles.

She's self-conscious about her looks.

Iam64 Sat 05-Feb-22 09:34:31

VB is self conscious about her looks, including her weight. She’s lived with unkind, demoralising comments throughout her adult life.

effalump Sat 05-Feb-22 12:58:19

I think she has an amazing smile, mouth closed or open. My late mum used to hate having a photo taken because she found it hard to smile naturally. I find it easier to smile on a photo if I say "saturday" as they're taking it but that often leaves me with a mouth-open smile but it does look more natural than a grin.

SuzyG Fri 18-Feb-22 13:51:42

Pantglas2 - I agree, I'd far rather see her mouth open in a natural unposed look than the daily botoxed trout-pouts we see in the news and all over facebook. But that's a whole other whinge. grin

Aveline Fri 18-Feb-22 14:07:13

Royal photographers must take thousands of pics on the offchance of a good one. It's editors who seem to choose to print or feature photos of Katherine laughing or smiling. Can't say I blame them!

tickingbird Fri 18-Feb-22 14:36:26

She’s laughing and looks lovely, nothing like a screaming skull!

Ali08 Tue 22-Feb-22 02:48:15

Barmeyoldbat

I have heard it all, what a horrible post. I thought they were wonderful photos of a young woman at ease and throughly enjoying herself. Mouth open, that’s how you have a good laugh. Much rather see photos like this than say Victoria Beckham who never even smiles let alone laugh.

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