Vintagejazz
I don't think it happens all of the time, or even frequently. Most gransnetters are too mature and decent to behave like that.
It happens occasionally and is spiteful and bullying behaviour that people should have grown out of decades ago.
"People" should also have grown out of putting forward unsupported opinions and expecting them to be treated as fact. They haven't though. They teach the difference in junior schools now. Other "People" find that both arrogant and rude.


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