Is it appropriate?

I’m so sorry for your terrible losses, 4allweknow. Life is rotten at times.

Wearing the same outfit sounds a perfect solution and I’m sure both your dd and Dh would approve.

I agree with everyone else. Perfectly acceptable to wear the same outfit

How very sad, 4allweknow. I agree that it would be a lovely gesture for you to wear the same outfit. My condolences to you.

I think it would be in keeping with what I suspect they'd both want. My condolences on your losses, so very hard for you

Agree, so sorry for your loss.

Sincere condolences at the loss of your DH. The outfit you wore for your daughters funeral will be perfect for your DH funeral.

So sorry for your loss

Totally appropriate

Even if it was not considered so, you have bigger fish to fry right now than thinking about this
You do you!

I agree with all the above, yes definitely, and send sincere condolences at this very sad time.

Please wear it, if it brings you comfort. A lovely link reuniting you all.
Please accept my condolences at this very sad time?

I think it would be highly appropriate to wear the outfit and would like to send my condolences at your sad loss.

Yes wear it, it would be a lovely tribute to them both. So sorry you are going through this

A big hug from me what a sad time for you I m another vote for yes yes do it please, a family link linking you to them both and them to each other
A lovely idea
Thinking of you ?

My condolences, 4allweknow I am another one, who thinks it is highly appropriate to wear it. ?

I have one black skirt and jacket that I air whenever I have to attend a funeral.

Like Tanith, I think it is a lovely thought that you would wear the same for both these funerals.

I am truly sorry for your dreadful bereavements.

My condolences too. I would also wear it. Along with something like a scarf in my daughters favourite colour and a ring or brooch given by my husband.

I see no problem in wearing the same outfit. If you wish to, you could also change a little thing - different blouse, change of handbag, shoes, add an item of jewellery that has sentimental value between you and your husband if you have something.
I doubt if anyone will notice what you are wearing beyond perhaps the colour.
Please accept my condolences at this sad time.

Totally appropriate 4allweknow may I add my condolences too.

Your lovely GN name brings to mind the beautiful recording - For all we know by the Detroit Spinners?

Sincere condolences and yes, as everyone else says, it seems entirely appropriate to wear the outfit

You’re following both their wishes, who’s going to give you a hard time for doing so?

I would think it completely ok to wear the same outfit, to the funerals of two people you loved.

Condolences on your loss.?

My Condolences to you? and yes it’s totally appropriate, especially as your DH approved of it.

I think it would be very appropriate to wear it again for al kinds of reasons. So sorry for both your losses

Wear the same outfit, it is a lovely link between the three of you. My condolences for your great loss.

I’m sorry for your loss 4allweknow. Another here thinking it’s very appropriate to wear the same outfit.

My sincere condolences for the loss of of your DH and your D. Wear what ever will help you through this difficult day .