Murderous intent?

Or maybe the 'giver/givers' just think that at her time in life, she's entitled to eat whatever she wants, even if it is causing her harm?
I'm not attempting to condone it, by the way - but I've heard that argument from others in similar circumstances - such as with smoking. Some people justify these things by arguing that a person of such advanced years should be able to 'enjoy' whatever time they have left no matter what damage their form of 'enjoyment' is causing.

If she is obese she is eating the wrong foods when they are not visiting. Maybe she asks for them.

The obese diabetic old lady doesnt buy them for herself. A visiting adult child visits only three times per year and brings a bag of sweet stuff each time. The photo shows just todays haul. No flowers, just this vast load of a tin of biscuits, cake, and endless bags of chocolates. It is hard to imagine its not designed to harm.

[MerylStreep] Me two..but OP what an odd thing to say 'attempted murder'

I’m just amazed that an obese diabetic reached 90.

Well, if the 90 year old obese woman with diabetes bought them for herself, it looks more like self-harm than attempted murder.