Yes, I had a very helpful husband. He was raised well by his mum. He and his father were able to keep the house clean and tidy, wash and iron clothes and cook a basic meal.
This was because his mum often went to Belgium to visit her family, leaving the menfolk to care for themselves,
In later years, once they got a freezer, she left it well stocked when she went away.
During our long marriage of almost 49 years, we slid into a routine that suited us both.
To be honest, he spoilt me rotten at times, especially when I became the main wage earner and worked very long hours.
He became an excellent cook so he took, over that and the shopping. After some disasters dealing with the washing, I kept control of that and the ironing and cleaning, whilst he did most of the gardening.
Now, sadly, it's all up to me.