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Vintagejazz Fri 07-Oct-22 12:36:04

We have gone sale agreed on our house. The estate agent asked if the buyers could have access for an hour this morning to measure up. We had things on but agreed they could get the key from the estate agent and let themselves in for an hour from 10 o clock.

We returned at 11.45. They were still there with about six family members, one of whom was upstairs using the loo and another was sitting in the garden smoking.
It is still our home and we only agreed that the couple could have access. I feel really annoyed that they have obviously been showing family members around our house, going in and out of the bedrooms etc with us not there.

My sister said we should have insisted someone from the estate agent accompany them.

AIBU to do this next time?

Cabbie21 Mon 10-Oct-22 08:52:02

When we were buying this house, i arranged a visit to measure up via the estate agent, who accompanied me to the property, but the owner said he needn’t to stay. She actually helped me with the measuring and we had a friendly chat.
There is no way potential buyers should be given a key before completion.
In a previous property we were selling, we had moved out into temporary rented property in a new area. Our former neighbours rang us to let us know that our buyers had been given a key and had actually started decorating! Totally out of order. We gave the agents a rocket, and our solicitor ordered the buyers to keep out until completion. At least that house was empty, but yours is full of your possessions, Vintagejazz.

jeanie99 Fri 14-Oct-22 21:44:50

I would have been absolutely furious and asked everyone to leave.
Taking over your home with family members when it was a strictly time allotted appointment for measuring only is a definite no no.
The agent should have been there, a very strong letter I think is in order to the agent with consideration of reducing the agents fee.
Unbelievable.

Pennypie Mon 17-Oct-22 19:57:08

I really did not think this happened any more. About 35 years ago, the house next door was up for sale and the estate agents released keys out to viewers. The keys got copied and the house was emptied by people posing as a removal company.
I am amazed that estate agents release keys still.