And wanting to go round and shout at her?
I seriously think she killed my cat. He and her became attached to one another. She has chronic illnesses and so is at her home a lot. He was a very sociable cat so used to go to hers.
I suspect she was feeding him but could not be sure as he was popular with the neighbours as a while. But there would often be days when I would not see him and so I suspect he was there with her.
A few times over the last 8 years, she has texted me to say he has a limp or something and I have always been a bit short with her because it does feel like she was taking over.
Anyway. He didn't come home for 2 weeks and when he did, I was shocked to see him. He had a swollen eye, laboured breathing and off his food. He had obviously been out in all weathers etc. Long story short, he had to be put down and the main reason for this was because he was so fat he could not fight off the flu that he had. I am absolutely devastated and also extremely angry. This neighbour took over and did not come round to tell me how bad she was when she must have seen it for herself. She's also clearly been feeding him as he wasn't coming home at all and I accept that my other neighbours may be lying when they also say they were not feeding him but I think it was her.
Aibu to go round and have it out with her?
