Separate bedrooms

My parents sleep in the same room but in separate beds due to my mother's disabilities - a possible solution for those who are being disturbed at night by a fidgety partner. Admittedly that would not help for snorers but there is plenty of help available to deal with snoring and of course earplugs are always an option. Maybe if you are in your 70s and 80s the idea of separate rooms might seem more appealing, but I am in my 50s, so a fairly young widow, and would have hated to sleep in a different room than my husband.

We had the constantly coughing, totally exhausting virus from 2nd January to the end of March just as DH was recovering from 8 months of Covid and very very slow recovery. I moved out to sleep on the sofa in the living room for 2 months as we were keeping each other awake but was very relieved to be able to rejoin him. Convinced his days were numbered, he booked a 10 strong family gathering from all parts of UK , having not seen DD, DGS and DGS for 3 years.... Mercifully it perked him up no end though 10 folk and a dog under one roof was pretty exhausting. He has a long way to go to achieve full fitness (if he ever does) but he is noticeably better now we're home again and DD has organised another gathering for us all in August. Each to his and her own but for me, snuggling into his back is necessary prerequisite for a contented sleep even though he has to get up, often snores and frequently pinches all the bedclothes!

We have separate bedrooms. Reason being I can’t stand him.

That's a good enough reason Kandinsky

Yeah Kadinsky that is is totally a good reason for separate rooms xx

Same seadragon despite some issues with sleeping with my husband I would not have swapped those days for anything, especially now he is gone xx