Jaffacake2
I always take my own food to meals as it reduces the anxiety for friends and family to cater for me. I have anaphylaxis to wheat protein and nuts and am very sensitive to cross contaminated foods, have been in shock multiple times.
It's made more difficult to cope with when people minimise a gluten free diet. People then sometimes don't fully understand people like me who are very allergic. Several people at my WI group and church often say things like " just cut the piece of that you can't eat " . They think I am just being fussy.
'Several people at my WI group and church often say things like " just cut the piece of that you can't eat " . They think I am just being fussy.'
What a ridiculous comment to make Jaffacake2! Do they not realise how dangerous anaphylactic shock is? Having witnessed several anaphylactic patients in shock during my working life I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Perhaps you could suggest that the WI have a medical professional speaker to do a presentation on the topic with some very graphic illustrations? But, then again, you can't educate stupid.
Having to be constantly on the alert for anything that might. trigger this condition is often exhausting and I hope you cope well yourself 
As for the OP, I don't think it unreasonable to ask someone to bring their own choice of gluten free bread roll to a buffet where the host has catered with all other foods that everyone can eat. It's a buffet for goodness sake and the baby shower should be all about the mum-to-be and her baby, not someone who has CHOSEN to go on a gluten free diet.
