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Nanny or Grandma

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Sharr22 Tue 03-Dec-24 12:47:33

AIBU that as a new grandparents, who is refered to as Nanny by my kids and myself, my mother also wants to be called Nanny?

Back story she has 6 grand children already and 2 great grandchildren, from my children, her grandchildren
On a side note she also refers to my step dad of 53 years as 'Dad', not your dad so it sounds like we're sisters and he's our dad.

MissAdventure Tue 03-Dec-24 15:12:41

Lady Gaga sounds wonderful. smile

Ziggy62 Tue 03-Dec-24 15:19:02

I was grandma until my 2nd GC started to talk and started to call me by a shortened version of my first name. Now all 3 of my GC do

AGAA4 Tue 03-Dec-24 15:37:34

I seem to be Nana to everyone in the family now. My ACs call me Nana and so does my S i L. I quite like it. My mum was always Grandma.

Redhead56 Tue 03-Dec-24 15:58:38

I'm Nanny L or if I tell them off naughty Nanny!

Aveline Tue 03-Dec-24 16:12:45

I'm Gran. Nannies are people employed to look after children.

agnurse Tue 03-Dec-24 16:29:02

Both sets of our grandparents were Grandma and Grandpa. When I was young, we knew Mum's parents as Grandma with the black hair and Grandpa with the white hair, and Dad's parents as Grandma with the white hair and Grandpa with the black hair. Eventually, Dad's parents took in a tiny calico kitten (probably only about a week old) that my cousin had found abandoned. (My cousin loves cats but couldn't have one where she was living, so she asked my grandparents to take the kitten.) They named the kitten Snoopy. My youngest brother then knew our grandparents as the Grandma (and Grandpa) with the Snoopy and the Grandma (and Grandpa) without the Snoopy grin

(As an aside, Snoopy was fantastic for my grandparents. She was spoiled rotten, lived to be 17 years old, and passed away peacefully in Grandma's arms. Dad, a licensed veterinarian, humanely euthanized her.)

Grannybags Tue 03-Dec-24 16:29:11

I’m Granny and my Mum was Granny 😊

Jaxjacky Tue 03-Dec-24 16:31:23

I’m a Grandma, MrJ is Grandad, same as my parents were, except my Dad ended up Pampa, I used to employ a nanny.

JamesandJon33 Tue 03-Dec-24 16:32:16

I’m Grandma. Wouldn’t have like nanny as that’s a paid help. However in Wales it’s Nain, therefore Nan for short. I would have liked Nain

MissAdventure Tue 03-Dec-24 16:32:35

You employed a goat?! shock

pascal30 Tue 03-Dec-24 16:32:51

My name is Maya, my cousin Nonna and our grandmother was Nanna.. which I really didn't want...nor did my Mum who was called Grandma..

JamesandJon33 Tue 03-Dec-24 16:36:26

MissAdventure🤭🤭

rafichagran Tue 03-Dec-24 16:50:55

I am Gran, and I love it.

Allira Tue 03-Dec-24 17:52:11

Witzend

Both I and the other GM are Granny, with first name if needed. Could you not be e.g Nanny Ann and Nanny Sue?
It’s worked fine for us.

AIBU that as a new grandparents, who is refered to as Nanny by my kids and myself, my mother also wants to be called Nanny?
Well, I've read it three times and I'm still confused, sorry.

Yes, Nanny Sharr and Nanny Sue (or whatever your mother's name is). Although perhaps you should pick an alternative.

Anyway, she did have first dibs, being Nanny already!
I think.

Allira Tue 03-Dec-24 17:54:13

MissAdventure

The children will probably call you bing bong and noo noo or something.
That'll put paid to all the silliness.

GanGan.

kittylester Tue 03-Dec-24 18:15:42

What do the existing grandchildren/ great grandchildren call each of you?

My eldest, also the 1st grandchildren, couldn't manage 'Nana' but called my mum 'Anna'. Further grandchildren followed suit.

Similarly, our eldest grandchildren couldn't deal with Grandma and Grandpa so we are Ma and Pa to all 9 of them. I love it.

M0nica Tue 03-Dec-24 18:20:21

Who cares what the person is called? I couldn't care less what my grandchildren call me as long as they call me something and we love each other and have fun together.

crazyH Tue 03-Dec-24 18:30:02

There are no rules really - the grown-up GC call me Nan - the two little girls call me nanny , the two little boys call me Nan. I get confused 😂 Today I sent a video message to my little boys, referring to myself as Nanny, thanking them for the coasters they made for me at school. I answer to anything anyway ………….

mae13 Tue 03-Dec-24 19:10:07

Gran.

Calipso Tue 03-Dec-24 19:44:28

My daughter began referring to me as Granny when they got a kitten that I would visit & worship often. As I came in the door, she would call out "Granny's here Daisy!"
Daisy is now 17 and the title stuck.

rafichagran Tue 03-Dec-24 20:11:08

I don't think it matters Monica, some posters are just interested.

Gingster Tue 03-Dec-24 20:36:44

My Dh is called Gaga by the 8 grandchildren.
I’m a Nanna.

GrannyIvy Tue 03-Dec-24 21:35:17

I am Gran, the other grandparents are Nanny and Grandma. Sometimes my little grandson calls me GrannyIvy and I like this too. Hence my name on here GrannyIvy 😂

Nanato3 Tue 03-Dec-24 21:38:08

To my daughter's child I am nana and her dad's mum is grandma.
To my son's children I am Nanny and their mum's mum is nana .
I had 2 granny's . It doesn't matter as long as the children are happy
Before g/d could talk properly my husband was do-do [laugh]

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 03-Dec-24 21:48:48

I’m Nanna and OH is Grandad. The other grandad died many years ago and the other grandmother, who died six years ago was Grandma. I loved it when my granddaughter first called out ‘nanna’.