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Nanny or Grandma

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Sharr22 Tue 03-Dec-24 12:47:33

AIBU that as a new grandparents, who is refered to as Nanny by my kids and myself, my mother also wants to be called Nanny?

Back story she has 6 grand children already and 2 great grandchildren, from my children, her grandchildren
On a side note she also refers to my step dad of 53 years as 'Dad', not your dad so it sounds like we're sisters and he's our dad.

MissAdventure Wed 11-Dec-24 16:52:10

smile

Lydie45 Wed 11-Dec-24 22:26:29

I find it very patronised when people say nanny is a nursemaid or female goat, Nani is also a Welsh name for granny, or nanny. As my grandmother was Welsh she was called Nani or nanny and so was my mother and so am I. Because you have never heard of it it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

Nansnet Thu 12-Dec-24 04:36:51

Lydie45

I find it very patronised when people say nanny is a nursemaid or female goat, Nani is also a Welsh name for granny, or nanny. As my grandmother was Welsh she was called Nani or nanny and so was my mother and so am I. Because you have never heard of it it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

Exactly this!

I'm Nannie, my mum and MiL are/were both Nannie, my GMs were both Nannie, and my great GMs were both Nannie. Anything else wouldn't have been right for us! But I don't 'bleat' on (see what I did there?grin about not liking certain names for GMs because they sound way too old. Each to their own! Call yourself whatever you're happy with, or whatever your GC decide to call you. Stop putting other people's choices down. So patronising!

grandMattie Thu 12-Dec-24 05:19:01

My mother’s name was Pauline, pronounced the French way (she was French). A childe we knew always called her “bobbine”, which is what she wanted her GC to call her. My youngest wanted to be more intimate and shortened it to”Bob”! She was thrilled.
Me? I’m grandma as I dislike nanny, and nanna, and had no desire to be granny as my own granny wasn’t nice. Bonne maman or meregrand were not on the cards.

Imarocker Thu 12-Dec-24 11:46:00

Can’t you be Granny A and GrannyB? Why is it a problem?

Granmarderby10 Thu 12-Dec-24 12:39:22

Bob! grandMattie ..that’s made me think of Blackadder😹 sorry…

M0nica Tue 17-Dec-24 07:42:49

Lydie45

I find it very patronised when people say nanny is a nursemaid or female goat, Nani is also a Welsh name for granny, or nanny. As my grandmother was Welsh she was called Nani or nanny and so was my mother and so am I. Because you have never heard of it it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

I said that that was what my grandmother said - and she did. Not liking something cannot change the past.

I offered no personal opinion at all.

Bonnybanko Tue 17-Dec-24 08:04:03

I just love my grandchildren (all 6) call me granny it’s such a sweet sound , every one is so tactile from the youngest 10 yrs to the oldest 24 I just adore everyone of them and I’ve spoiled them rotten this year

mabon1 Wed 22-Jan-25 17:11:15

Get a life, if that's all you have to gripe about, lucky you.

theworriedwell Wed 22-Jan-25 17:18:12

Don't worry what they call you as long as they call you.

HomeAgain123 Wed 22-Jan-25 17:30:01

My mum was a GG also , sadly passed away last year but hearing my grandchildren still talk about GG it’s as if she ‘owned ‘ the term such affection .

JamesandJon33 Wed 22-Jan-25 17:32:31

My children’ grandmothers were Black mum, as she had very dark hair, and Green mum… no idea why. She had greyish , blonde hair.

welbeck Wed 22-Jan-25 18:57:54

Front door ?

JamesandJon33 Wed 22-Jan-25 19:00:31

No, they said it was her hair!

Lydie45 Thu 23-Jan-25 00:22:42

For anyone who says nanny is a goat or paid employee, Nanny or Nannie is a version of the Welsh name for grandmother, Nain. My Nain was Welsh so she was called Nan or Nanny by English me

WelwynWitch3 Thu 23-Jan-25 10:30:27

I’m Nana, my choice. I worked for an Irish company and they use Nana and it sounded lovely with an Irish accent. My older grandchildren called me Nana Pebs and the other grandmother Nana Charlie after our dogs! My son remarried some years ago and our younger grandchildren call me Nana and other grandmother Grannie, she is Scottish and that is what is used in Scotland.

NoveltyDocs Thu 23-Jan-25 14:27:35

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