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SunnySusie Sun 12-Jan-25 14:52:26

A well known national chain has a salon in my nearest town. As a treat I decided to have my hair coloured by them to cheer up the dull days of winter. I had a colour consultation, allergy test and strand test, making an appointment at the same time for the treatment a few days later. The salon phoned me to say that I had FAILED the strand test. I questioned the member of staff who said my hair was too porous for colour. I was amazed and quite upset. I am 71 and I dont want to revert to my natural grey. I have been home colouring my hair to dark blonde with Clairol products. I always use conditioner and a protective oil before drying. AIBU to be a bit miffed about this. Surely they could do something for me? Ladies of more advanced age than me seem to have their hair treated and I was a regular customer of the salon when I was at work and had more money, including having my hair coloured by them. Has anyone else experienced this?

foxie48 Fri 17-Jan-25 14:40:15

My grandmother still had mainly dark brown hair when she died at 87. My hairdresser says I've still got a lot of dark roots even at 76 but the front of my hair is white. When I had it highlighted I used to have to have all the colour stripped out and a toner on it as I have a lot of dark auburn in it which can make it go brassy. Even now, when the sun bleaches my hair I get golden highlights despite it being coloured dark brown. It's all about genetics.

Allira Fri 17-Jan-25 15:34:13

Mine was all kinds of colours when I was young, even green once although that was a mistake with a home-colour!
Now I prefer to be au naturel.

M0nica Sat 18-Jan-25 09:52:17

foxie48 sounds like we have similar genes.

WelwynWitch3 Sat 18-Jan-25 12:30:01

Whilst still working I always coloured my hair but once I retired I decided to go au natural. I’m not fully grey, still a bit dark at the back, as my mum was at 87! Recently hairdresser recommended purple shampoo which you can by over the counter, if you wash in normal and then wash out it enhances the grey and lifts it. Leave shampoo in for longer and it will add a bit of a purple shade to your hair, I wash in washout. Grey hair is porous and doesn’t like strong dyes.

Oreo Sat 18-Jan-25 13:34:56

Allira

Mine was all kinds of colours when I was young, even green once although that was a mistake with a home-colour!
Now I prefer to be au naturel.

Yes yes, but how about your hair? I like to be au naturel too but only in very hot weather and in the house.😁🤭

Allira Sat 18-Jan-25 20:14:35

Ooh no, just my hair! shock
Don't want to frighten the neighbours.

lemsip Sat 18-Jan-25 20:54:57

Allira

lemsip

my sister said that all the blond women should realise that people know they bleach it..... *she said that from her dark brown head of hair at age 83!*

My blonde DD doesn't bleach hers any more; it's still blonde but not platinum any more.

I would also think it very exceptionally rare for the hair on someone 83 to be dark brown without dye, making the statement amusing. grin
I'll let you know if I get to 83 (🤞) but mine's still darkish brown and I'm pushing 80.

oh dear, you missed the point completely.

of course my sister age 83 dyes her hair dark brown while complaining about those that go blonde

lemsip Sat 18-Jan-25 20:57:03

Norah oh dear. you missed the point too, of course my sister dyes her hair f g sake.

Allira Sat 18-Jan-25 22:21:25

lemsip

Allira

lemsip

my sister said that all the blond women should realise that people know they bleach it..... *she said that from her dark brown head of hair at age 83!*

My blonde DD doesn't bleach hers any more; it's still blonde but not platinum any more.

I would also think it very exceptionally rare for the hair on someone 83 to be dark brown without dye, making the statement amusing. grin
I'll let you know if I get to 83 (🤞) but mine's still darkish brown and I'm pushing 80.

oh dear, you missed the point completely.

*of course my sister age 83 dyes her hair dark brown while complaining about those that go blonde*

No I did not miss the point at all.

You missed mine of course.

Why so rude?

madisonjenkins1 Sat 18-Jan-25 23:42:23

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