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Semi-naked in red carpet: Chappell Roan

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honeyrose Tue 03-Feb-26 21:32:06

At the risk of sounding a total prude, I was shocked at seeing singer Chappell Roan on the Grammy’s red carpet, with her flimsy dress (if you can call it that) attached to her by nipple clamps, revealing her boobs in all their glory. Whatever next?! There have even been totally transparent dresses on the red carpet and bottom cleavage too! I’m almost laughing as I type this, I don’t know why, but I don’t think it’s acceptable, it’s just unbelievable. Will it soon be ok to reveal even more of the human body in public? A few years ago, this would never have been permissible. I sound like Mary Whitehouse, I realise, but I just find it incredible. Not only is it attention-seeking of the the highest order, but isn’t it also indecent exposure? Have I missed something? How come this is ok? The photo of her has been pixelated over the nipple area, by the way, as you can probably tell.

David49 Wed 04-Feb-26 07:15:32

Women go to ever more extremes to get attention, presumably because they think it makes them more attractive, all it does is attract the wrong kind of attention.

Will they ever learn.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 04-Feb-26 07:22:29

I was quiet shocked that her single Pink Pony Club was nothing to do with equines…

Astitchintime Wed 04-Feb-26 07:23:36

Clearly got no mirrors in her home then!!!

Sarnia Wed 04-Feb-26 07:38:14

She isn't the only one who appears semi-naked at events.
I wish they would have some self respect. They look tawdry and cheap dressing like that. They do not do young girls and women any favours. It sends the wrong message to certain types of men. For me, women leaving something to the imagination are far more alluring.

Iam64 Wed 04-Feb-26 08:25:46

Truly dreadful on every level. Just how we’d want our daughters and granddaughters to dress for a special event. Makes me glad I live in a former mill town where we still ‘dress up’ not down for special events

mae13 Wed 04-Feb-26 08:42:15

These horror outfits (someone actually 'designed' them?) always remind me of the late Kenny Everett inventing a character called Cupid Stunt, a stereotypical empty-headed starlet, extremely badly dressed and her catchphrase was "it's all in the best possible taste!"

Fallingstar Wed 04-Feb-26 08:44:09

I personally think that the old stars of yesterday, the likes of Liz Taylor and Marilyn Monroe, looked way more stunning wearing amazing dresses on the red carpet, with never a boob or bottom on show. I think these awful outfits do absolutely nothing for the woman wearing them.

Harris27 Wed 04-Feb-26 08:45:22

My mum used to say don’t show everything leave something to the imagination!

Wyllow3 Wed 04-Feb-26 08:51:02

No, it doesn't shock me in the slightest, it's "showing off" for publicity, tawdry, and often not by those who conform to current ideas of naked beauty (which is silly anyway).

Oh, men show off their bits in publicity shots. Said bits may be covered but you can be sure if the said bits are substantial we'll know abut them.

grin

ViceVersa Wed 04-Feb-26 08:56:49

GrannyGravy13

I was quiet shocked that her single Pink Pony Club was nothing to do with equines…

Haha, no it's certainly not! The Grammys are always an excuse for someone to try to outdo the 'shocking' outfits from the last awards ceremony and garner the most publicity possible - so in that regard, she's certainly succeeded!

ferry23 Wed 04-Feb-26 09:03:17

Truly dreadful.

But it's a topsy-turvy old world when someone who takes off their clothes so that others can stare at their body parts is paid vastly more money than someone who, for example, contributes to medical science, or has studied enough and is skilled enough to save lives via such advances in medical science.

Society values a Kardashian over an Einstein I'm afraid.

PoppyBlue Wed 04-Feb-26 09:09:58

As you say, men, generally, don't appear showing off their bits - perhaps they want to be taken a tad more seriously for their talent?

Justin Bieber performed in his underpants at the same event.

MartavTaurus Wed 04-Feb-26 09:10:34

What a getup!

I like the matching hair, the only good part.

Mermaid like?

eazybee Wed 04-Feb-26 09:20:33

Not sure what look she was aiming for, but it didn't make her look any more attractive.

pably15 Wed 04-Feb-26 09:26:17

she forgot her liberty bodice..catch a cold

TheWeirdoAgain60 Wed 04-Feb-26 09:26:41

I think Chappell is absolutely hideous at the best of times, both physically and mentally, but that monstrous thing she's ''wearing'' is grotesque.

If any of us here went out in public ''in'' that we'd be done for indecent exposure and cod knows what else!

Frankly, it reeks of ''common slut''.

Luckygirl3 Wed 04-Feb-26 09:28:21

It all smacks of desperation and an an awareness that, even though it is 2026, selling your sex is a way up the ladder for women still - how very sad.

ViceVersa Wed 04-Feb-26 09:32:39

TheWeirdoAgain60

I think Chappell is absolutely hideous at the best of times, both physically and mentally, but that monstrous thing she's ''wearing'' is grotesque.

If any of us here went out in public ''in'' that we'd be done for indecent exposure and cod knows what else!

Frankly, it reeks of ''common slut''.

I never understood why Bianca Censori (Kanye West's wife) wasn't done for indecent exposure given some of the 'outfits' she was (barely) wearing. Imagine popping out to Tesco in something like that!

TheWeirdoAgain60 Wed 04-Feb-26 09:33:58

Mael13 - HA HA HA! I loved Kenny, and his Cupid Stunt had me crying with laughter! ''I was proposed to by a queen, but that's another story!''

Astitchintime Wed 04-Feb-26 09:35:57

pably15

she forgot her liberty bodice..catch a cold

Yes, I can hear my Mum saying “you’ll catch your death going out dressed like that”. 😱

fancythat Wed 04-Feb-26 09:38:53

It is nudity.

For attention.

One question is[and there are others] is she happy about that or was she "forced".
Either way, she should not be allowed out like that in public.
I hope there are laws whereever she was.

TheWeirdoAgain60 Wed 04-Feb-26 09:40:23

David49, I'm female, and I fully agree with you!

We women, need women's rights to protect ourselves against predatory men, but those awful women like Roan are pushing us normal women back loads of years!

As a woman, it's her body, and she can wear what she likes, but there has to be a limit to what she can wear in public!

Without meaning to sound vile, we don't see men on the red carpet exposing their danglies; they'd be arrested if they did!

Witzend Wed 04-Feb-26 09:57:37

In a novel whose name I can’t remember, since I read it many decades ago, a mother said to her adult daughter, ‘Remember, (whatever her name was), women who need to use their bodies to create an impression are vulgarians of the cheapest sort.’

Or words to that effect. The mother IIRC was of the American East Coast aristocracy.

But that photo certainly brought the quote to mind!

keepcalmandcavachon Wed 04-Feb-26 10:02:25

This thread has most certainly raised a titter.

TerriBull Wed 04-Feb-26 10:06:25

Once upon a time women who appeared nude or semi nude in nightclubs for men's gratification were considered exploited. Now parading near nakedness seems to have been reinvented as empowering. I just see it as exhibitionism. As others have stated there are loads of gorgeous evening dresses available why would anyone choose to go out with what looks like a bit of cheap material draped in such a contrived way to bare everything. Don't get me started on that nipple conraption it makes me shudder, painful surely shock

Bianca Censori has been paraded around by Kanye West in various states of undress for a couple of years leaving the question is she complicit or does she do it under duress, or are they so desperate for publicity at any cost?

In any event many venues they've been to around the world have found it distasteful as certainly patrons will have complained and made to feel uncomfortable.