I have 2dc. Oldest DD youngest DS.
My DH passed away 5 years ago.
DH always said that our money was for our DC so when DS settled down with DIL he did not want DIL to benefit from money we worked all our lives to save for our DC.
When alive DH made sure he gifted money to DD but not DS because of this. I was sole beneficiary in DH will and when I die I want to leave it 50/50 to DD and DS. DD says this isn't right as this is not what DH wanted.
I know DH wanted to exclude DS from the will once he settled down but DS has two children and has been with DIL for twenty years, she's not going anywhere. DD was married for two years then we paid for her divorce, we had already helped her into her first house then upon divorcing we lost a lot of money then gave her money for a second house. She then had a child with someone but they separated and DH was so worried this ex may get money from his will, as he was dying, he gave her money for a third house as the one she wanted was more expensive than the one she had and needed works done.
DD says that if I leave DS anything in my will DIL will get it and I'm unreasonable because this is not what DH worked hard for. She says If I leave it all to her, she will see all of the grandchildren and her brother right as and when they need it but make sure DIL can't benefit from it and I know she will. I just think DS will be hurt when I die and he reads that I've left him nothing
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