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How many Grandads do we have?

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Magsie Mon 23-May-11 16:49:05

How many Grandads do we have and are they happy to be asked things? Step forward lads!

jack Thu 19-Apr-12 10:46:46

Do you think I'd share a spare George Clooney? What do you take me for Carol?

Carol Thu 19-Apr-12 10:55:50

....reatreats gracefully.......not going down THAT road again......I'll just abduct him when she not around.....no, better not, she'll be back....grin

jack Thu 19-Apr-12 12:25:03

And how!

glammanana Thu 19-Apr-12 12:50:50

Carol if you remember George came over the fence and I picked him up but I've never seen him again since that night he made a hasty retreat !!! blush

Carol Thu 19-Apr-12 13:06:32

Don't let on glamma but I suspect he was waylaid. I'm over him now.....(sob).....

jack Thu 19-Apr-12 16:42:46

Actually I've gone off him now. Used goods and all that. Besides, you can have too much of a good thing.

So it's back to Poppa, who is coughing his lungs out and needs lots of TLC.

Any idea how many grandfathers are now on this site? We need some male input.

grandadR Sat 21-Apr-12 10:55:28

Hi, add me to the list. Just joined. I'm not good at light hearted banter, don't do pubs (or beer). But I really like being Grandad. I think as gender roles in parenting are changing fast, as they are in the wide world, so they do for grann(d)s. Grannys have always taken part in childcare, it is changing as families get increasingly geographically diverse.
I am in my workshop at present making a bed for Ivy (my life has been spent making furniture) - not the "garden shed".
Anyway, ask me anything you like, and I will tell my truth as best I can.

R

DavidH22 Sat 21-Apr-12 11:20:18

Just adding my name to the grandad list. Recently joined after seeing Geraldine, I think it was, speaking on a news programme about the effects of the recent Budget on grandparents. Like grandadR I agree the gender roles are changing in later generations as much as younger ones. As a single grandad - and there must be a few about - I am doing my bit in the babysitting stakes. Do feel I get a few odd looks in the local park as the only male pushing a swing for my nearly-three grandson but there you are.

Carol Sat 21-Apr-12 11:33:54

Great to hear about grandads looking after their grandchildren and how fantastic to have your grandad make a bed for you! Looking forward to chatting to you both some more. smile

glammanana Sat 21-Apr-12 11:34:12

grandadR & DavidH22 welcome to the GN world we have some very good discussions some are topical and some are just daft and funny but we have a good time and we could always use some Grandads advice get ready for some fun nights out when we go on our virtual parties next one scheduled for 5th May GN 1st anniversary.

grandadR Sat 21-Apr-12 11:50:22

DavidH, I do Playgroup once a week (for 2 years now...), and am often the only male. Much reserve at the beginning, and I felt like I was butting in on their "mothers group". I usually end up during tidy up pulling the rolled up carpet round round the floor with loads of little happy passengers. Perhaps we need an "ask a granny" topic to balance things out. They have been doing it far longer than us after all.
R.

grandadR Sat 21-Apr-12 12:39:27

Uh oh. Just seen the "ask a gran" topic. So there it is.

R.

fatherbear Mon 23-Apr-12 18:49:07

This is my first post having just signed up with gransnet. I'm a Granddad and step-Granddad to 4 children.
Have just visited 2 of them yesterday to celebrate Nanny's birthday. None of them live nearby so meetings are few and far between and very much enjoyed.

pompa Mon 23-Apr-12 18:59:31

Bribery works every time, especially a hunk of bread pudding. grin

nightowl Mon 23-Apr-12 19:02:47

Welcome fatherbear hope you will come to the gransnet party. I have just invited myself with a cake, I have also offered to be the one man band so I'm afraid that role is taken. Unless they decide to hold auditions of course hmm

Jacey Mon 23-Apr-12 19:44:17

Welcome grandadR, DavidH22 and fatherbear dragon

fatherbear Tue 24-Apr-12 19:26:03

Ask away and I'll try to answer but i have a very small brain

gramps Tue 08-May-12 14:54:41

Ding ding, your bus has arrived (late as usual!)

gramps Tue 08-May-12 15:08:43

I'm an 80 tr. old Granddad ,with 5 Grandchildren. Eldest (boy) at Lancaster uni, doing physics degree. Yungest (girl) 16 and apple of my eye dopng her A levels. Good results so far. She has diabetes and coeliac disease. As large as life though!!

I do pottery, sing in Church Choir and amongst other things, help in primary School with reading!
Am I qualified to join the Grandads?

gramps Tue 08-May-12 15:12:14

I'm also a slow, one finger typist with a degree in mistakes! Also ,a crazy sense of humour!

Greatnan Tue 08-May-12 16:18:31

I am waiting for the extreme views with interest! I love a good debate. Of course, the views might be extreme in the same direction as my own, which will still be good because I will have another supporter!

pompa Tue 08-May-12 16:29:27

Hi Gramps, we need all the support we can get, us Granddads are going through an unpopular period atm. Come on over to the shed. Safer there.

Notsogrand Tue 08-May-12 16:46:56

Haven't been to the shed for ages, great to see some new Granddads!

Off now to get some plants in before the next downpour, but I'll leave this slab of bread pudding behind. It's still warm. smile

pompa Tue 08-May-12 16:56:08

Waiting for another couple of weeks before planting any tender plants out. need to start sowing cubits in greenhouse over the next few days. But, as we usually do, we have arranged to go away for 2/3 weeks just at the most critical time in the garden.

absentgrana Tue 08-May-12 17:02:56

pompa I don't think granddads are really going through an unpopular period. Grandmas, in general, are very happy that you're here, I think. It's just that we really don't want to have to keep telling you that we love you.smile

Thinking about the shed – I make very unreliable cakes, but can do mean bread pudding every time. Does this work for granddads as well as grandchildren?