Is acknowledging a birthday important

Aw.....I have just had several loving pm's on Facebook from assorted grandchildren. It is my birthday already in NZ! I expect their mum reminded them!

My lovely DIL is the the sender [and now signer] of all cards and gifts. It was the same with my parents and my grandparents. It's just the way of things, I think signing and sending cards [except for wife/girlfriend] just doesn't come into a man's mind. Not being sexist but men do not think of the minutia of life.

janeainsworth a very happy birthday to you
greatnan must be time in France to wish you a happy birthday lots of love nelliexxxxx _

Thank you nellie - two hours to go!

Happy Birtday Greatnan (and to my DS because they don't take much notice of birthdays in Spain.)

Happy Birthday, and wishing you many happy returns Greatnan. Hope you have a wonderful day with lots of messages from your big family.

Even Google has got a birthday cake!

On time now greatnan have a lovely dayxxxx

Happy,happy birthday to you Greatnan

Thank you, my good friends - I have posted a message on the Birthday Greetings thread.

Happy Birthday, Greatnan. Wishing you a very happy day

Bonne anniversaire

Happy birthday Greatnan

I hope you have a lovely day.

Also to any other GNetters whose birthday it is today.

By the way, does anyone else have special dates in their families? In our "blood" family of DH, me, DS, DD and 4 DGCs we have three 27ths and three 30ths out of eight birthdays (all different months). My MiL and Fil were also 27ths. No births were induced!

My Aunt had all three of her children on the same date, same month but different years.

If a woman has a regular menstrual cycle, it is quite likely she will conceive around the same time of the month and, hence, have all her children's birthdays clustered around one date. Mine were 31st and 2nd.

Never thought of that greatnan but bears out with my 3 xx

Have also noticed that birthdays cluster round same time of year as well as dates,used to joke that my mum and dad seemed to favour March just as the sap is rising as my brother and I are 2 weeks apart with 5 years difference,two of mine the same with 23 months difference in may and June and one in September....notice I tried hard not to inflict the Christmas birthday misery on mine.

Due to summer holidays? Happy New Years?

The September one was a few too martini's over the Christmas period ,planned and first time lucky .elegran
May and June where also planned luckily without problem,and yes September holidays

I think remembering birthdays is very important but, unfortunately, when people have very busy lives they tend to forget these things that mean so much.

I do feel sorry for my daughters, whilst I would have loved a career when I was younger I do not envy them having to juggle jobs and care for their families at the same time. It does seem very stressful and leaves little time for leisure or, indeed, thought for others.

My youngest daughter always forgets my birthday and I generally get a panicked phone call a week later. It used to really hurt my feeling when it first started happening but now I look at it with a chuckle at how absent minded she has always been.

Please don't feel too down about it, it is just one of those things and if it continues to happen why not have a quiet word with your son about how you feel? Sometimes its good to talk.

Ally

I reckon I was the result of my dad having a couple too many drinks at Christmas, 1939!
I make excuses for my family not telephoning or sending cards, as most of us do, but I also had a very busy career and I still managed to telephone my mother almost every day from wherever I was living in Europe. She never helped us in any way, not financially, not baby-sitting, but I adored her. So did my sister and we were both most upset one New Year's Day when she was staying with me in Monaco and we realised that we had forgotten to ring our mother on New Year's Eve, as we always did. My mother was quite put out about that, even though we explained we had been in a bar having a drink with a group of friends - this was in the pre-mobile days. She wouldn't go to my sister's wedding, which was hastily arranged due to her pregnancy, because she had a work's outing to Blackpool booked.
Why do some mothers (and perhaps fathers) get more attention than they have earned, whilst others who make huge sacrifices for their children are taken for granted? Or have I just answered my own question?

Oddly enough, my older daughter is much more attentive now she is 12,000 miles away and rings me a couple of times a week as well as keeping me updated with pms on Facebook.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY dear Greatnan I trust that you've fun in mind. Enjoy!

After I got married I was always the one who remembered birthdays for both sides of the family otherwise nobody would have cards or presents. Now 26 years since we split I still send my former MiL a birthday card and small gift (from myself of course) Cards for my own birthday were always bought by my mum, but my daughters took over when they were old enough and have never missed. My cards are on the fireplace ready for opening tomorrow - unfortunately it is unlikely I will see daughters, son in laws or grandchildren due to work etc. but they will no doubt all arrive at some stage on Saturday. MY house will be a very lively, noisy place - at least for a few hours.

Happy Birthday for tomorrow Dancinggran