What happens when he dies and the will becomes public? They will find out then the existence of a brother. The dilemma for you is that it's not really your place to tell them. Whom will they blame for being kept in the dark, especially when they realise that you were in the picture all the time? Do you speak to your ex? If you are on speaking terms, it would be right to point out to him that they will find out when dies and that it would soften the blow if he broke it to them gently sooner rather than later.
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