It's so difficult. Some of my friends and relatives, and one daughter, live or lived on Estates- because they needed help. And yet they are the ones who screamed at me for wearing pink coloured glasses and 'not having a clue' about the massive (their words NOT mine) abuse of the system and how a huge proportion of their neighbours were just taking the of the system. The stories they tell are just incredible, and they did not pick them up for the Daily Mail or the Sun, but their own daily observations.
So, I totally agree children should not go hungry or made victims (they already are, in so many ways)- and I can understand how paternalism is so 'paternalistic' for fail of a better word. And still- if parents prefer to buy fags, alcohol, drugs, expensive toys for themsleves or the kids, flatscreen tvs or holidays to Benidorm, or whatever- can we keep pumping more and more money into their hands, until some percolate by 'accident' to the children. Much better to provide breakfast clubs, and free nutritious school meals and after school homework support- instead of giving it to the parents who are shown to not be responsible and put kids first?
Edwina is so irritating and condescending- but she does have a point. Priorities for too many have changed, and not for the better- good food for the kids seem to be right at the bottom for too many.