I can understand all of the comments about difficult births etc. but still see no reason whatsoever for your Dil's rudeness and nasty comments on that bloody awful Facebook lizzyr Why spoil such a happy,family event? There are plenty awful things going on around us everyday and surely a new baby in the family, especially your first child/grandchild should be celebrated. I would have a gentle word with your son (who is the babies daddy after all) and try to see what's really going on. Is she a control freak who is used to getting her own way all of the time? Do you and her have other issues and she is trying to get back at you via you naturally yearning to see your new grandchild? It's a tricky one. I do hope it is resolved very soon. Congratulations on your new baby grandchild by the way.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!