As a mother of two sons, gran to a boy and a girl and a still-practising nurse I can't believe that I have to ask this but, to cut to the chase, when with your GD how do you refer to her genitals?
I have GD(5) staying with me for half-term - at bath-time I was helping her to dry and and asked if she'd done her 'privates' properly - yes grandma, I've done my 'bits'.
It was so simple with boys and I was always precise ..... it was a penis.
My Aunt told my cousins they were called Robin/Betsy!! Other family members have all agreed when introduced to someone called Robin, we immediately think of their willies
DD's chums (all 6 or 7) seem to use "nunnie" It may be a London thing as most of their mums have always used this too whereas in Manchester none of us did (front bottoms up there!)
My sil grew up with 'fanfare' which is my absolute favourite of all time
That's exactly right whenim64, the draw round me body always got participants talking about the consent issues around our bodies. I can't remember a course when a new name for male and female bits wasn't learned (by the tutors anyway). Mum was a Manchester lass and we always had front and back bottoms.
My littlest calls hers, her flower, and my other dgds used to use 'precious' when they were little. When I was small it was 'tuppence' or as my mum used to say "keep yer'and on yer 'appenny'!
This reminds me of a time hundreds of years ago when my two DC were in the bath together. My DS (age probably around 4) looked at his younger sister and asked why she looked different to him. A brief explanation followed then he said "so she's just the same as me, just inside out"
I remember an old work colleague saying that she was in so much of a rush one morning that she could only manage a quick of wash of the 3 F's. I admit to having to think about it !