My husband is not a 'joiner' either, and does not have hobbies, although he is always happy to find things to do around the house and garden, and he likes to read. We are constantly in each other's company, with the exception of every other Saturday in the football season when he goes to the match with our son. I have to admit it annoys me considerably at times and I do let it show. What annoys me more, however, is my own attitude that, despite the fact that he would have no objections to my doing my own thing if I wanted to, I feel so guilty when I actually go off and do something on my own, that I don't get the most out of it. We enjoy walking but, unlike me, he doesn't enjoy walking with a group. I have often said that I don't think he gets enough out of his retirement and he gets annoyed and says he's happy enough and I shouldn't try and live his life for him. For the most part, it works. I like to fish, but am not very keen on the off road driving it takes to get to some of the wilder places where he can take himself off for a walk while I'm doing my fishing. He gets the exercise, I get the solitude!