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The use of acronyms on Gransnet

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2old4hotpants Fri 12-Feb-16 12:39:23

I love Gransnet, and reading the forums every day. But what really irritates me is the constant use of acronyms. Why not just type daughter, grandson, mother-in-law etc? If we have time to read through the forums each day, surely we have time to enter the grammatical words? And why should they all be darlings? Use of the more obscure acronyms such as ICWYM, FWIW and SO mean I have to pause reading to work them out, or resort to looking them up on the list, which interrupts the flow of reading and absorbing the message.

Are we just jumping on the bandwagon of younger generations text-speak? We are not of their generation, our lives are not generally led at the same pace. Do others agree that text-speak is contributing to the damage of our language? I shall continue to make a stand when posting of using correct language as was taught to our generation. Of course this is only MHO, WDYT?

annodomini Sat 13-Feb-16 18:22:52

Whatever happened to OG (Old Git) which was quite popular at one time? grin

rosesarered Sat 13-Feb-16 18:24:57

Doesn't bother me in the slightest (DBMITS) anything which makes typing faster is good (AWMTFIG) smile

Alea Sat 13-Feb-16 18:35:25

"What really irritates me" isn't moaning?
There are infinitely more serious issues to irritate/annoy/depress/ exercise/concern some of us, but it clearly doesn't stop members posting, so, so what?

grannyqueenie Sat 13-Feb-16 18:37:01

But surely it's up to each of us to use/ignore acronyms on our own posts as we choose, so I can't see what the problem is. I don't think that folk really would bother which I choose to do, or maybe the gransnet police are more powerful than I thought grin!

janepearce6 Sat 13-Feb-16 18:41:24

I can't bear the 'D' in front of everything - why oh why is it necessary!?

annodomini Sat 13-Feb-16 18:41:59

Exactly, grannyqueenie. smile

Ana Sat 13-Feb-16 18:43:19

It isn't. You don't have to use it!

Shestheone Sat 13-Feb-16 18:47:10

CBA is my new favourite - something I've learnt from GN that I wasn't expecting.

Thought when I joined this forum I'd just pick up tips on being a grandma, being thrifty, improve my knitting, etc.

Wow, did I get a surprise! In a good way before anyone gets offended ?

thatbags Sat 13-Feb-16 18:47:34

Just what I've been trying to say too, gqueenie. Tolerance. Same freedom of choice for all.

Lazigirl Sat 13-Feb-16 18:56:17

Same here Shestheone.

Elegran Sat 13-Feb-16 19:00:40

All the acronyms are optional, and all parts of them are optional.

If you don't want to use DD, use D, or dd, or d, or type daughter - it is up to you what you do or don't do. No-one is going to ban you for typing the full thing. If you don't understand a post, then either ask what the poster means, look it up in the acronyms list, or ignore it.

Acronyms have been in use on here ever since the forum began. It is not the old bats getting down there with the youfs, it is how Gransnet posters communicate, and really, it is not rocket science - no more difficult than calling a personal computer a PC or a television a TV. How often do you say you will turn on the TV? Daily?

It is as it is. Should 5,000 people change an established tradition for those who are not yet familiar with it? If you join a gym, you have to learn where the changing rooms are and how to find your way from reception to the pool. Do you ask them to move everything to the car park so that you don't have to think?

Alea Sat 13-Feb-16 19:16:30

Thought when I joined this forum I'd just pick up tips on being a grandma, being thrifty, improve my knitting, etc

Oh dear!! Can't quite think how to respond to this. One of those back-handed compliments?

You must have missed the thread on this seasons directoire knickers. Or the one on go-faster stripes for our Zimmer frames. Or "50 Shades of Grey" washing before we shared our favourite soap powder or how to crochet your own Shreddies gringrin

Elegran Sat 13-Feb-16 19:36:03

She did add Wow, did I get a surprise! In a good way before anyone gets offended" alea !

On another thread, Gransnet has been berated for having subjects that are too "feminine" and not gender-neutral enough!That poster would probably be annoyed that there are not enough acronyms and other evidence of GNers being all up-to-date, gender equal and internet-savvy. Can't win!

Shestheone Sat 13-Feb-16 19:44:36

Hmm - not intended that way at all alea

I was hopefully trying to illustrate the gap between preconceptions, in this case my own, and what I have actually found on this site, which is a varied collection of topics, experiences and personalities.

As in RL, there can be misunderstandings, comments taken the wrong way.

Ana Sat 13-Feb-16 19:53:11

I just have to say that the omission of the apostrophe from your username bugs me far more than the use of acronyms on here, shestheone! grin

And I appreciate that you were not criticising GN but just expressing your initial surprise at its content smile

Ana Sat 13-Feb-16 19:55:01

(PS that's just because I'm a pedant, I'm sure it doesn't bother most people)

thatbags Sat 13-Feb-16 20:02:04

There are times when I wish apostrophes could be abolished. It's usually when people use them with plurals. ???

Shestheone Sat 13-Feb-16 20:09:01

D'you know what, ana as a fellow pedant it bugs me, too. But it's my username on other sites which don't allow punctuation marks in usernames.

Not sure if I tried to add one when I registered here or if I made an assumption......

Threw in a few apostrophes to demonstrate I do know how to use them really ?

Elegran Sat 13-Feb-16 20:12:40

That is interesting. I wonder whether apostrophes are allowed in usernames? I'd have to leave and rejoin to find out - not worth all the bother, really. CBA.

annodomini Sat 13-Feb-16 20:29:53

I notice that whenim64 doesn't have an apostrophe in her username. I don't think apostrophes would be permissible.

Anya Sat 13-Feb-16 21:16:27

Blimey! We're certainly having a plethora of moaning 'don't like' threads at the moment. As well as don't like acronyms, there's don't like being addresses as 'guys', don't like children being called 'kids' ...I might as well not log on and just listen to my GOM (Grumpy Old Man) whittering on about not liking this and can't stand that. D'you reckon it's an age thing? Or perhaps a genetic pre-disposition to age-related grumpiness? My D MiL was just the same.

IMO it's a case of some people are born grumpy, some achieve grumpiness and others gave grumpiness thrust upon them...hmm

Phoebes Sat 13-Feb-16 23:03:25

I wouldn't use acronyms myself and just ignore them in posts. Means I don't understand who's who, but life is too short to figure them out. I just think it is lazy and discourteous to use these abbreviations and I find them intensely annoying!

Elrel Sat 13-Feb-16 23:14:22

I try to put people's pseudonyms correctly (ie exactly as they do) but often give up after a few tries because a bossy autocorrect on my iPad either changes them or removes them completely.
It isn't just me, or is it?!

Alea Sat 13-Feb-16 23:32:56

That's as may be Phoebes, but Gransnet has a list of recognised acronyms for use on this site . Not compulsory, just what we (most of us) do.
It is not lazy or discourteous to follow the practice of an organisation if you choose to join it,but it could be construed as discourteous to criticise existing members who do.
Nobody is forcing you, but as I have not read your posts on other threads I cannot comment on your own practice.

merlotgran Sat 13-Feb-16 23:42:14

I agree with Anya. Some pretty unimportant moaning going on at the moment.

Must be a slow news week.