Lilyflower our post has reminded me of the early days of my retirement, when released from the stresses and strains of working life, I had boundless energy, redecorated the whole house, reconfigured the garden, started writing my (still unfinished) book, redoubled my political activism and charitable work, signed up for modules at the local Uni, crossed Canada on a shoestring, went on a Cruise. A truly Golden time.
Then there was a complete change as both daughters moved from the city to nearby and presented us with 3 DGC in 3 years. Our lives became very busy with childminding, helping renovate their cottages and gardens, shared holidays - another exhausting but wonderful time until....
2.5 years ago DH had an accident, was recovering and then had a total breakdown/collapse so our lives changed dramatically again. My three different phases of retirement (so far) are reflected in various responses to the question posed in this thread. Another example of how you cannot lump all retirees together when their ages, finances, health and circumstances are as variable as those of the working population. Makes for a very interesting thread.