I don't think it's a case of overruling parents, Annibach. I think it's just a case of having one's own rules and standards, and sticking to them. Just because the stressed and exhausted parents haven't got time to remind the children about polite and unselfish behaviour, it doesn't mean grandparents haven't got the time. We have. And in a loving family no-one should resent a bit of nudging from the older, wiser (?!) generation. My own grandparents (on both sides) were incredibly strict about all sorts of things, but we didn't mind. We were fascinated. And now OUR grandchildren like and respect our own preferences re. manners. This also extends to grammar and pronunciation - but I imagine that's another thread!
Harry and Meghan ‘royal’ tour of Nigeria.
Arghh!! Moving house and conveyancing frustrations
NEVER EVER HAVE I - Game 2 (Alphabetical)
"Gaza war: US 'hopeful' Hamas will accept Israel's new ceasefire offer"