I love babyshowers, if gathering to celebrate that time in a womans life is an american import, well thank you america - much appreciated
OP I will say though, that the more game oriented ones are less enjoyable than the more relaxed gather for afternoon tea and making a fuss over the bump ones, people don't enjoy the game bits, they don't work very well, they sound fun on paper but end up cringey in practice.
The nicest ones have been BBQs or tea parties without stifled sitting around doing enforced fun games. Baby themed decorations and cakes and favours (baby bottles filled with milk bottle sweets) and just chatting and spending quality time with the mum and her friends family before the arrival.
Also, sorry but what if something goes awfully wrong? Shouldn't celebrations wait until it's safely arrived?
WTAF????? If a woman tragically loses a baby, that doesn't erase her pregnancy OR the baby, they were and will always be a major part of her live, and if I lost a baby it would make a baby shower an even more important memory, because I'ld know that the pregnancy and unborn baby meant something to the people who gathered to celebrate the pregnancy with me, and my child existed to them as it did to me, even if it was for a short time!