Over the years I've had countless problems with my daughter. She seems to move from one crises to another we've supported her throughout. We've been generous with birthdays and christmases and dropping our own lives at her many calls for help. She's almost forty and her boys are almost grown. She hasn't been a great mum. She wouldn't agree with that but her chaotic lifestyle has damaged them. There not awful teenagers but they argue and don't help much around the house. One is autistic and won't clean his room or help around the house. She or her past unsuitable partners haven't been the best role models . She keeps saying she's going to throw him out. I'm appalled by this and want to tell her she's partly to blame. She's in a better relationship now but I'm not sure he wants to commit. As usual she putting him and herself before the boys. There's lots of sadness going on here and she hasn't visited once. Oh she'll cry at the news but that's the limit of her sympathy and support. Due to the current changes in social payment system she's had to get a job. It's the first real work she's had. It's cleaning so fairly physical but she works less hours than me. She does nothing but moan about her lot and it's really pissing me off making me feel fed up. I now realise we have been far too helpful. All our efforts at supporting her have failed and we may have made a 'rod for our own backs' looking back I think we overcompensated because we were so hurt by the years of estrangement. I feel as if she needs to be told some home truths. I love her, I do but I'm worn out and disappointed with her. I'm not going to do anything as yet I've got enough to cope with and couldn't face the upset. Oh dear
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