I realize how you all must feel and we would definitely agree with you all that it was due to her being 99. I would not have minded if she had taken the phone and explained that she did not feel well. But she has been like this ever since she was young, so often putting on an act until she got her own way, usually due to saying she was not well, when her gp used to confirm to us that she was fine there was nothing wrong with her. She said she used to enjoy winding up my old father etc
I just wanted one day of peace, but talked to her today when she telephoned, of course it is all repeated conversation but that I can well understand, I am sure I will be like that at 99.
This is one pure example:
In the Christmas of 2013 Charles and myself went to spend Christmas day with her. In the morning, when my brother was there she kept saying that she had a bad back and didn't feel well. The gp came around who again told us she was fine. But all day, while she was in bed, she kept repeating to me how bad her back was and remained in bed.
Charles was sitting in a different room, so I thought I should spend some time with him.
She dashed out of bed and across the sitting room saying:
'You were supposed to be here for me' no sign of the bad back at all after that.
I had to hear such embarrasing stories from my mother-in-law as she knew mum before we married.
Anyway she has had a good life, not having to work and with us away at school. She always made sure my late father, who gave her a wonderful life, would take her abroad each year from the mid 1950s until he died in 2005.