Although not in this situation, I love the idea from newnanny suggesting that you arrange to have the children stay with you at least once a year (or take over in their house and give your DiL a break!). That is something for you all to look forward to and cherish.
You can build up a relationship or keep it going with regular Skype. As long as you are in their lives and interested in their exploits/school/activities etc., you will always have something to converse about and still be part of their family.
I can understand how much sadness you feel at the moment, especially as at each turn of your house you find a reminder of them but as with everything, this will lessen. I would try to initiate a regular Skype slot at a time convenient to them and build on that,
Failing that, would you be in a position to move closer to them or do you have other grandchildren elsewhere?
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