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morethan2 Tue 18-Jul-17 20:13:34

I am hoping a gransnet teacher can give me some advice on how or where to get help for my 9year old granddaughters handwriting. She not behind in schoolwork and has a reading age above her chronological age. Her hand writing is almost illegible and it's affecting her confidence. Her mummy is concerned and thinks it's important. When she's with me she spends lots of time playing offices/school so there's lots of holding a pencil and writing.

Teacheranne Fri 21-Jul-17 11:44:52

I apologise if I offended or upset anyone with my post, that was honestly not my intention. I was trying to say that having a diagnosis of dyslexia or any spld does not necessarily help or support a child and that a school should put in interventions without a diagnosis if it is evident that a child is struggling in some way. I worked in a secondary school which was recognised by the LA and Ofsted as outstanding in SEN support and I was a dedicated advocate for such children, often going against other teachers and school managers to get the support they needed. I made sure that teachers were aware of strategies to support children in the classroom with dyslexia, dyspraxia, ASD and many other needs as many of these strategies also helped all the children in their classes. I need to rephrase my initial comments to reflect better what I meant. I was not being flippant or dismissive when I said I could read her writing as I agreed that there were some issues and should have suggested that the school do some assessments of her non verbal reasoning to confirm her overall ability - there are several assessments which the school SENCO could do as a general indicator even if they are not qualified to assess for dyslexia, that can only be diagnosed by an educational psychologist. Some of the private assessments centres do not employ such qualified people and so their reports say a child has dyslexic indicators rather than diagnose. There are some good (better) suggestions from other people about how to help this child with the handwriting concerns mentioned in the initial post. I am aware that the child is only 9 years old but it is only a couple of years before she moves to secondary school so I thought my comments about how exam access arrangements worked at GCSE might be helpful as her parents will need to make sure any such arrangements are undertaken from Year 7 to provide a history of need. I used to work in the West Midlands where several parents paid for private assessment from a dyslexia tuition centre and I read the reports. It was evident that the assessor cut and pasted comments from a standard proforma and often got the child name or gender wrong in the recommendations. Hence my cycnism about the validity of some of these reports. Once again, please accept my apologies for any offence that I gave some posters, that was genuinely not my intention and I am upset that I gave that impression. Anyone who knew me as a SENCO will know that I am not uncaring, dismissive or ignorant of spld concerns.

boermeise70 Fri 21-Jul-17 11:11:58

It could be dyslexia as some people have said, but it is worthwhile mentioning something else called dysgraphia which my granddaughter, now 20, also suffered from, she too was above average in reading and numeracy and was forever being picked on for her poor handwriting throughout primary school, she struggled with writing assignments and exams right through senior school as well and it was only at college that her dysgraphia was picked up and diagnosed. By that time she was fed up unfortunately and left college to start working. Here is a link to dysgraphia www.understood.org/en/learning-attention-issues/child-learning-disabilities/dysgraphia/difference-between-dysgraphia-dyspraxia

Musicelf Fri 21-Jul-17 11:06:06

My DGS has just been diagnosed with Aspergers, and they also suspect dyspraxia, so tests are ongoing. He is 8, and his writing is poor, but much more legible than morethan's DGD. As a former primary and middle-school teacher, I've seen many such examples, and would only say that I would want the child to be assessed for dyspraxia or dyslexia.

Myym Fri 21-Jul-17 10:58:10

One thing that you could try during the school holidays is to get a big selection of pens/pencils ..fat, thin, short, long, including trying the push-on rubber grip attachments for pens. Make a game of getting your granddaughter to try writing the same sentence with them all. The game could be that you have to guess which one she wrote the sentence with.
You may find that one particular style of pen or pencil makes a big difference to the end result.
Hopefully she will have a helpful teacher in the new class year in September that can help.
But don't forget...some people just have messy writing.

Theoddbird Fri 21-Jul-17 10:56:13

Oh it is not how something is written...it is what is written that is more important at that age.

Theoddbird Fri 21-Jul-17 10:54:43

My son had terrible hand writing. His brain seemed to work faster than he could write. He is 38 now...still has awful writing. Put a keyboard in front of him and he was away though... IQ 152 and he is a dispensing optician.

Grannycupcake Fri 21-Jul-17 10:51:29

When my DS was at school, we got summoned to the office because they wanted to get an educational psychologist to see him because of his handwriting. I told them I never had particularly good handwriting, but started my own business at 18 and never looked back. DS, actually didn't go to university, because he wanted to do voluntary work, but still got a BA hons and Dip Lang.from Open University, without much trouble. He actually speaks many languages, including Greek,Russian, Chinese, French, German, Spanish,Romanian and others.
Maybe it's not the problem you think it is. Brain thinks faster than the hand can write.

radicalnan Fri 21-Jul-17 10:41:27

I have terrible hand writing and, shared the very same handwriting with my aunt, letters from either of us were passed to the other for 'translation'. My aunt was brilliant business woman and artist.......I am not.

My dad always said how much like his sister I am, the writing seemed to be almost a manifestation of our inner being, and some strange sort of quirkiness of personality.

I often think of her, aged well over 80, dancing Flamenco with gypsies in the Spanish markets close to where she lived, I hope I have her happy old age. I am alas, alone now in a world without anyone who can read my writing, that includes me sometimes.

Dyslexia does need to be ruled out I think, but even the worst writers have bright futures ahead.

saoirse1961 Fri 21-Jul-17 10:35:32

I'm a supply teacher and have been in lots of schools in West Midlands. Nearly all of the schools have a handwriting lesson. You can buy cursive handwriting books in shops to help her during the holidays. Get her to write poems etc something fun

Chattycathy Fri 21-Jul-17 10:35:23

Looks like there are some dyslexic characteristics there. The way forward for her Is to practice keyboard skills - BBC dancemat, doorway online, do free good ones which we use in school, or just google free typing programmmes. Once she has a decent typing speed she can type her work which is far easier for her, and use the spell checker. Schools should be able to accommodate this easily.
I would also suggest trying pencil grips, and a sloping board may make handwriting easier for her. Hope this helps.

BlueBelle Thu 20-Jul-17 08:21:46

How strange my grandaughter wears her watch on her right wrist
She also gets all her information from the internet and tv
I once asked what reading fiction was like and she said she couldn't remember the story because remembering the words got in the way it seems it was awful hard work She used to get all her stories from story tapes
She also can't do ball sports but enjoys the gym and running ( although a bit lazy)

It's amazing how dyslexia can intrude on so many areas other than reading

Coolgran65 Thu 20-Jul-17 00:23:27

devongirl mentions clumsiness.
Indeed there were signs that we knew nothing about. The fact that my ds chose sports such as cross country running that did not involve teamwork was a flag. Because certainly in the case of my ds the dyslexia thought process caused a hesitation that wouldn't be acceptable in team sports .

He also was an A student except for English and so the school did not feel there was a problem. His assessment for dyslexia actually stated that this was a red flag. The disparity between the poor English (struggling to get a C) and the 'superior' maths/physics/chemistry (marks always 95% ~ 100%) should have been an alert to the school.

The assessment also noted the typical..... reading factual books of interest rather than fiction.
Could also tell that his general knowledge came from television rather than newspapers. (I've no idea how they can tell this but it was all very correct)
The report even mentioned about his wearing his watch on the right wrist (apparently common in dyslexia)

Nelliemoser Wed 19-Jul-17 23:30:37

This is a useful link to the resources.

www.dystalk.com/resources/links/151-national-centre-for-learning-difficulties

Nelliemoser Wed 19-Jul-17 23:26:48

This may be useful (I have been hunting for this article)}
20 yrs ago (when I was 50) I was diagnosed as Dyslexic when starting an OU course.
I was an early and competent reader long before Dyslexia was known of. I was constantly nagged at school about my written work.

I have now found this very accurate description of my hand writing problems due to dysgraphia .

Symptoms of Dysgraphia
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"Dyslexia creates problems in reading where dysgraphia, also known as written expression disorder, creates problems in writing. Although poor or illegible handwriting is one of the hallmark signs of dysgraphia, there is more to this learning disability than simply having bad handwriting.

The National Center for Learning Disabilities indicates that writing difficulties can arise from visual-spatial difficulties and language processing difficulties, in other words how a child processes information through the eyes and ears."

Some of the main symptoms of dysgraphia include:

Difficulty holding or gripping a pen and pencil
Inconsistent spacing between letters, words, and sentences
Using a mix of upper case and lower case letters and a mix of cursive and print writing
Sloppy, illegible writing
Tires easily when completing writing assignments
Omitting letters or not finishing words when writing
Inconsistent or non-existent use of grammar

Besides problems when writing, students with dysgraphia may have trouble organizing their thoughts or keeping track of the information they have already written down. They may work so hard on writing each letter that they miss the meaning of the words.

I do all of the above.

(I still have dreadful problems hand writing. The wrong words just come off my pen, capitals appear in odd places and grammar and punctuation is difficult. I find even writing a note to the milkman difficult and usually need two goes.

This is the first very clear description of Dysgraphia I have come across. ( It is quite reassuring really.)

M0nica Wed 19-Jul-17 15:57:28

morethan2 Has she been tested for dyspraxia? I had appalling writing, no matter how hard I tried. In the Sixth form, teachers were trying ideas like printing and writing in pencil, anything to improve it, without effect.

When DS came along he had exactly the same problem, but even worse. I searched around, in pre-internet days, I found information about dyspraxia.

It was a problem not recognised officially 30 years ago, but I found a therapist and after a course of specialised physiotherapy, both of us saw immense improvement in our writing and general muscle co-ordination.The problem is now recognised by the mainstream medical world and therapy is available on the NHS.

Visit this site [http://dyspraxiafoundation.org.uk/]. Their list of problems children with dyspraxia can have sounds quite frightening. For DS and I our problems were limited to dreadful writing, poor balance and trouble riding a bike. Apart from that we were absolutely normal, well socialised people and DS was otherwise doing well at school.

Eglantine19 Wed 19-Jul-17 14:56:34

I was a primary teacher for 35 years in some of the most deprived areas of London and ended my career in an Infant school where 60% of the children had a special need of one kind or another. The children left for Junior school when they were seven and I would, even at that age, have been concerned by the examples the OP has posted and would certainly have arranged some extra help before then.
I don't believe in the current over pushing of young children but this is a child who is clearly struggling. Psychologist assessments aren't always helpful in providing remedial help. You can't beat a really knowledgable practitioner who can identify where the problem lies and what needs to be done to ease it, if not solve it.
I know I sound harsh but I was/am passionate about every child fulfilling their potential.

BlueBelle Wed 19-Jul-17 14:53:15

Well contrary to what you sayTeacher the school although not willing to pay for the test (which showed my 'A' student granddaughter to be profoundly dyslexic) have agreed with the report given and apart from the exam time which will be applied for, one thing written on the report was she must not be asked to read out aloud in class unless she wanted to, she found it acutely embarrassing to be asked to read Shakespeare's out, she is a slower reader and can stumble she is at the young teen embarrassing age and if nothing else it was worth the money so that she didn't have to go through that again, chipping away at her confidence
The original posters grandaughter is not writing normally for a intelligent 9 year old The classic b and d and the sipwreckev , the poor spacing, completely scream dyslexia Teacheranne you might be very clever but I had a great deal of trouble deciphering that write up and I would have thought and hoped that her class teacher would have picked up on it and I think it's very disappointing that teachers don't have more training in this area and take action when it sticks out like a boil on the end of your nose
My grandaughters primary school did not recognise her problem because she was a high achiever I was with my daughter when we saw the head mistress when she was 10 the head was adamant she was a brilliant pupil and had my G ds books all on the desk to show us her high marks, my daughter said, now let's look at her English work ...it was just like Morethan s grandaughter ....horse would be hoser, belly was Delly book would be bok my daughter said that is not the work of an intelligent 10 year old and the head slunk into her chair and said no but we cant fund a test as she's not failing When she went to High school exactly the same happened she's an 'a' student in most subjects ( apart from Spanish and French) so my daughter funded the test herself and I have hope that she will have more time in an exam ... I m pretty sure she will pass without but why get a b if she can get an a Well we thought it worth a try and we were never asked to send her to their tutor or anything other than the original test outlay
Yes and short term memory plus often dyspraxia my grandaughter has poor special awareness and has only recently started being able to throw and catch a ball with a tiny bit of accuracy ?And doors and chairs walk into her

trisher Wed 19-Jul-17 14:18:47

MiniMouse I met quite a few SENCOs in my life as a parent and as a teacher, some were wonderful, some unfortunately tended to think that all the child had to do was to work a little bit harder and they would be OK. My son especially suffered he is very articulate and a bit outspoken (can't think where he gets that from) some teachers thought he was just difficult although he is very dyslexic.His ed psych described him as one of the worst short term memory cases he had ever seen.

devongirl Wed 19-Jul-17 12:47:03

Sorry, I haven't had time to read this post thoroughtly, but my daughter was assessed as dyspraxic at the age of 15 and subsequently was allowed to use a laptop in GCSEs and offered extra time, though she hid not need it.

trishers comments re. other aspects of life are so important - I can see looking back that all the symptoms of dyspraxia were there, but no-one ever suggested it and I knew nothing then. If I had, she could have been helped at a much younger age, and as well as possibly progressing as trisher says, she would have been spared years of confidence-sapping comments about being clumsy/useless.

I urge the OP to get her GDD tested.

MiniMouse Wed 19-Jul-17 12:43:50

although we might think someone's handwriting is poor, as long as the teacher and examiner can read it, it will be acceptable. I had no problem reading the examples given and although there were a few issues

I tend to think that the 'few issues' are rather more relevant than you give credit for Teacher!! angry As you were a SENCO, I'm amazed - and horrified - at your dismissal of the 'issues'.

Jalima1108 Wed 19-Jul-17 12:42:28

This - I mean she!!

Jalima1108 Wed 19-Jul-17 12:42:07

I would have thought she needs to be assessed well before she goes up to senior school. This is obviously a bright child who doesn't have an apparent problem with reading but has a problem with getting her thoughts down on paper, so an expert opinion is needed.

trisher Wed 19-Jul-17 12:16:09

Well Teacheranne your prejudice and narrow minded ignorance is something I had to fight since my youngest son was 4 both personally and professionally. I don't particularly care if you can read the examples. Identifying dyslexia involves looking at the child's potential and the work they are producing. There is some evidence of real potential in the examples and it is possible that the child's ability to communicate is being hampered by a real learning disability. Having a dyslexic son and having identified several dyslexic pupils during my teaching career I really object to your comments. It sounds like the old idea that dyslexia doesn't exist and is a middle class myth. As research into the brain and memory function develops there is substantial evidence to the contrary, Your remarks about exam times aren't helpful either the child is 9 and with the proper help could make substantial strides before she sits GCSEs.

Teacheranne Wed 19-Jul-17 00:18:22

As an ex SENCO and responsible for the exam access arrangements at GCSEs, I need to point out that a diagnosis of dyslexia or dyspraxia does not necessarily entitle a child to extra time in exams at age 16, even with an assessment report. Extra time is only allowed if a child has language processing difficulties as indicated in certain tests such as non verbal reasoning. Slow handwriting might result in extra time if the child can prove that they achieve higher marks during the extra time compared to the usual time. A school has to show evidence of history of need ie that the child is used to having these special arrangements during their regular lessons and exams for several years prior to GCSEs. It is very hard for a school to apply on line for these special arrangements nowadays and many applications are turned down by the exam board. A child with poor handwriting might be able to use a lap top in exams if they use one in lessons as well but in reality, although we might think someone's handwriting is poor, as long as the teacher and examiner can read it, it will be acceptable. I had no problem reading the examples given and although there were a few issues, I am not sure that a Primary school would be able to pay for an assessment of every child with such handwriting - possibly half the school! I have seen may poorly written and assessed provide dyslexia assessments which do not really say anything concrete and seem to be used to get parents to pay for private tuition in their own centres.. I know that is cynical and I am sorry for children who do not get the help they need in school, I always helped any child regardless of a diagnosis, if they are falling behind then extra interventions should be provided regardless.

MiniMouse Tue 18-Jul-17 23:51:30

BlueBelle Glad to read that your GD was assessed, but it's awful that those whose family can't raise the funds themselves could lose out. As you say, once assessed, the extra time in exams could also make all the difference.