Oh Norgran, that's so sad, I am sorry. I regret very much an upset I had with my stepfather after my mother died. He had terminal cancer and died a few months later. He was a lovely man and had been such a good husband/father, but was consumed with grief as were all of us and I simply didn't know how to cope. Thank goodness all was well again by the time he died, but thirty years later I still feel guilty.
Like another poster, I have never regretted who I married, just that it wasn't a few years later! 20 and 23 is very young for a life time commitment!!
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