Surely the dishwasher washes at temperatures that you can't possibly achieve when hand washing. At least 65 degrees - germs will surely capitulate at those temperatures. Even when the machine has finished, the plates are still too hot to touch.
So, handwashing finishes with a rinse in hot water, I would say. At my mother's - where it takes about 20 minutes for the water in the kitchen to start running hot, and she doesn't have a dishwasher, I often scrub everything and stand it on the draining board, then pour a kettle of boiling water over the plates to rinse them.
Glasses I rinse under the tap when it finally runs hot, as they would crack if boiling water was poured on them.