Esspee So was I. I lived in a new town and most off the women at the ante natal clinic were under 20. When the midwife described me as an elderly primagravida, I turned to her and said 'I thought I would grow up before I had children'. Her reply was 'I wish more of them would do that'.
DDiL had first child at 38 and an elderly prima gravida was a women over 40.
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?