I have just been to see DS, DIL and DGC. I rang to see if I could go over, as I usually do, and was told I could go for a cup of tea, there was time before friends started arriving for an afternoon get together. Fair enough, helped out with GC while they were running round prepping.During some brief conversation, I heard a friend had been invited round yesterday ( "bless, she was on her own, husband out on a stag do") as well as DIL parents( who they spend most days with, most of Christmas etc). I was on my own yesterday. I have been through a phase of friends passing away the last couple of years, and although I have a lovely husband, he was back at work day after Boxing Day, and it can be a lonely sometimes, though I can find plenty to do.I feel manipulated by my DIL quite often. We have a good relationship on the whole, but I feel she micro manages my visits, whereas her parents are welcome anytime. To a degree, I know this is a natural thing, but I am starting to find it irritating, as she will contact me with a ' how are you text?' , and I know that I will be asked to babysit , have GC extra days or overnight from that first text.I will see my son on his own over the weekend. Should I say I feel pushed out,I would like to come over more and feel more part of their lives? Is it worth the fight anyone? Is it beating my head up against brick wall time? Shall I carry on as things are and feel miserable and a bit used, if I am honest? Sorry, this time of year is not easy.....
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