Hello gransnetters advice please. Im a 59 yr old long time married wife, mum and grandma who lives 300 miles away from her 87 yr old mother. My older brother found himself divorced 9 years ago, so he moved in with mum temporarily and being still there is now mums primary carer, she has carers in 4x a day while he's at work, and cannot fend for herself. He does all her washing (takes to launderette) and her shopping, staying at home a couple of nights per week, but calling in every morning and evening, phoning home each lunchtime.He is due to go on a cruise on Friday with his newish partner and mum who has Alzheimers agreed to go into a home for 2 weeks respite but when I discussed it with her earlier this week she got upset and said she didnt want to go and wouldnt stay, I haven't mentioned it since. Im visiting her for a week ( I look after GD and still teach part-time) and it has fallen to me to take her to the home, which Im dreading. Ive had to pack her case in secret, visit the home without her knowing and shall take her case while she’s at the hairdressers on Friday! My question is how do I get her through the door on Friday afternoon? My brother will have gone, and I have to set off for home early Saturday morning. I know mum will cry, and beg me not to leave her. Help please! Thankyou in advance.
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