Best way to help a new Mum & Dad

We don't live near enough to any of our grandchildren to be on hand on a daily basis. However, when my daughter had her first baby at the end of last year, the most helpful thing we gave the new parents was a couple of weeks of meals from Hello Fresh. www.hellofresh.co.uk

They're freshly prepared ingredients ready to whip up a decent meal. They come with a recipe card and there's absolutely no waste. Each and every meal they had was delicious, they said. I've been wondering if I can justify buying them for dh and me!

Enjoy your new grandchild.

Both DDs really appreciated an offer to babysit and a prepaid hairdresser's appointment. All 3 births were by cesarean and I think the anaesthetic played havoc with their hair.

Lovely new little ones - congrats to all!

The one thing that most helped one of my DDs was me arriving with a rubber ring for her to sit on!! Very sore tail-end poor lass.

Thank you all SO much for those great tips and ideas - will definitely give them a try!

Congratulations to cornishclio on your new granddaughter. This is the first child for my daughter, so no toddler duties involved this time! I can imagine it must be a big part of grandparents' role to entertain them though...

So: food, handcream, ironing, and being there, quietly, when they need it. I can manage that I think, especially with the reward of a new bundle of joy to cuddle, and watching a new little family start their journey...

PS My own tip ( learnt over the last 2 days) is....always wear waterproof mascara. New babies = lots of happy tears!

My DD had her 2nd DD last Friday so we also have a new granddaughter in the family. We have been over this week and done shopping, cooked meals, entertained the toddler so mum and dad can concentrate on baby and held the baby so mum and dad can bath the toddler. I have made a few shopping visits into town as DGD2 was few weeks early so they needed smaller size clothes. What I tend to do is text or WhatsApp in the morning to see how they have coped overnight and offer help and left it to them to ask so they don't get too overwhelmed as my son in laws parents also live nearby.

So I would say offer to make cups of tea and or a meal. Bring in cakes as a special treat. My husband cleaned up their kitchen this evening which they were happy about. Just generally helping out wherever you see things need doing like emptying bins etc. etc.

You don't say if it is their first but if it isn't we found our DD and her husband quite like us to hold the baby so they can spend time with their toddler to avoid her getting too jealous. We are all spending a lot of time entertaining her as the baby could not care less and just sleeps a lot.

I would text too to ask if they need shopping bringing in.

Sometimes just offering to hold the baby if the baby is not sleeping well so they can get their heads down for a nap is sometimes welcome although my DD and her husband are sleeping in shifts at the moment. Depends on how easy their new baby is.

Congratulations on your new little grandson.

Fancy hand cream. My hands cracked from all the washing them after nappies/sick/breastmilk leakages with my first!

Yeah I did a lot of ironing for DDiL too nanaK54 I still bloomin' well do and the children are 12,10 and 8 !!

Many congrats on the new arrival

I did lots of ironing for my daughters-in law, and was very happy to do so

Some nice toiletries, she will be bathing frequently, pretty underwear if you know her size, there are lots of lovely nursing bras if she is breastfeeding.
Definitely home cooked dinners, casseroles and shepherds pie, nourishing comforting food and easily frozen.
Congratulations on your new arrival.

Congratulations on your new grandson Millbrook .

Certainly the food as stated is so important.
Make sure they all get plenty of rest and discourage them from allowing lots of visitors,make sure they rest when babu is resting and you can make sure all the washing is done and sorted for mum,keep discreetly in the background when ever you can and don't give advice unless asked for it.
Congratulations on your new little man.

Home-made quiche is another food idea- handy to eat warm or cold, (in the middle of the night!).

I think food is always appreciated. If they have a freezer, cook some tasty casseroles, lasagne etc, and pack into portions for 2 or 3 people (new mums are always hungry). Home baked cakes for all the visitors will also be welcome, I’m sure.