Thanks for that, Hazbeen:
"it would be a strange day if we all saw things the same way!"
I'd have been worried and afraid to take charge of my grandchildren when they were babies.I was completely confident with my own babies but lacked self confidence about my grandbabies and doubted that my sons and daughters in law would have trusted me to get it right. I was happier in grandchildrens' company when they were older, but never got much chance to do things with them . I never knew what this was , whether they did not trust me personally, or whether they did not regard a grandmother as acceptable company on outings and so on. I never knew which it was. It does not matter now as all are adults and set in their ways.
I'm not like the OP's mother in law . I like to be instructed about what I am expected to do and concede to the parents.
Do you still wear you original wedding and engagement ring
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic