My mum is 81 and I am now 50.
I am tearing my hair out with her.
She is trying to run my life. I have not made a will, she has decided we will be going to the solicitor to make my will to her satisfaction. I have a cash inheritance coming in the future from my aunty for me to spend on me plus the house from my mum. My mum wants me to put aside 20k for each of my two grandchildren from my aunties estate. When I die all my estate is to be given to my grandchildren not my partner. How dare she decide how I leave my money.
She tells me how to have my hair and how to dress. My son is getting married end of this month and she went out and brought me a hat, shoes and bag. I am wearing navy and cream. She then decided she was wearing navy to. I protested and said I will wear my pink lace dress if she wears navy. So she went and brought a pink lace dress and jacket. She knew I would be changing into the pink dress for the evening. She keeps digging that she would have prefered it in navy but I was being awkward.and refused to let her wear navy.
She is now deciding what my two yr old grandson calls me. She insists on being called Nanny despite me being called nanny by my 3yr grandaughter. She sees my son and my grandson a lot more than me and tends to rub my nose in it. I protested she strops. She had got my grandson calling me nanny dee. I hate it and said forget it so then my mum tried to get him to call me nanny allen despite my own kids calling her that. I wont have that either.
She seems to get great joy in upsetting her sister as well.
If I dont pick up the phone she keeps ringing till I pick up and I get where have you been I have been ringing. I have my grandaughter today took her out and because she wanted to talk got nasy when I said I could not.
I am seeing both my sons and grandchildren for breakfast tomorrow. She invited herself,I didn't want her to come. Told her to call my son to see if he would collect her. Thinking she wont pick the phone up to him. She did she is now coming. It is embarrassing how she treats my grandson. She shovells food into his mouth like something possessed.
I dont want to speak to her, see her but no escape. HELP!!
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