Lessismore, you have created the conflict. I am not sure you are following the discussion. People with views you don't share have every right to them.
Many of us have worked in multicultural communities for decades. The arrival of the Burqa is a relatively recent form of dress for Muslim women, and some would say it is worn to make a point about radical Islam.
What I DO know is that most educated, working Muslim women (who dress modestly and are devout Muslims) also feel the Burqa has, more than anything else, created distrust amongst communities and makes integration much harder.
They can feel the suspicion and discomfort with the burqa which reflects on all Muslims, most of whom are fairly westernised in habit, with Islam just as important to them as it is to the fundamentalists.
It is not a compulsory form of dress.
I feel quite sorry for the women who wear it. It makes all forms of personal interaction difficult, given we smile, laugh, frown and express ourselves with our faces. My Muslim ex-colleagues have despaired that young women, as young as 16 are imprisoned in this cover-all and have their lives in the west made much more difficult.
I am one who doesn't feel the onus is on liberated westerners to be accepting of a form of extreme dress which creates suspicion, anxiety, distrust (because the world has become a violent and often unhappy place because of wars, terrorism and culture-clashes) and is completely alien to the way in which we live. Tolerance works both ways too, so to live in the west and enjoy all modern living has to offer is to accept that culturally some adjustments have to be made.
The burqa does not promote integration, tolerance or understanding, which is imperative in a world which needs to be come peaceful. e don't need animosity. Radical, fundamental Islam really has no place in the west given the nature of its patriarchy, practices and laws.
Turning a blind eye to something extremely alien to the way in which we live in the name of 'tolerance' isn't the way forward either. We have to stop treading on eggshells concerning the burqa.